supposed boyfriend is in love with his best mate O.o

[AllThatIsLeft]

soooo...
this is like novel worthy...

and I don't know what to do...
So the boy I was sort of, kind of with... (i'm getting this resolve, so ignore the fact that it isnt a solid relationship)

told me today, that he might be in love with his best friend, who's a boy.

I mean, i got nothing against gays or bis, in fact i love them.
but how do I compete with a boy, and i'd understand if this guy were good looking, but this "love" is only based on friendship.
Chances are his friend doesnt even like guys, but still... i mean here I am, pouring my love to him, trying to be there for him, and just nothing, and I don't know I refuse letting this all get to me, but i'm in a rollercoaster ride with all this, I got feelings too, and it isn't exactly nice, hearing that the boy you love, might be in love with another boy.

I feel so worthless, and unappreciated, but i know he is going through some pretty messed up time, and it is sort of understandable that he might not want to attach himself to anyone, until the point when that isn't what happened....

I'm not looking for he's not worth it answers, but i'm super confused on what to do. :(

[Burnthecity]

First off, I love you, so who cares!!!!!!!!
no but seriously

This cant be easy, this happened to me, but the other way around, i was "with" a girl, and she then started to date her friend. it was akward
and it hurts
it realyl does
you honestly just need to wait it out hun
its all you can do, just be there to support him with whatever he does, show him that you truley love him and your there for him, make him want you, (not in a sexual way) mentally.

and dont feel worthless or unappreciated, cause you know that your not, you know that your not worthless, your worth alot to all of us here at VT and you are defenetly appreciated!!

just stay strong, im always here if you need to talk paula!

[myskias]

well.. this is tricky. cause the boy you like could be going through a phase.. but he also could be moving on towards becoming gay. i say you should just wait it out a little bit and do what you truely think is best. try to just calm down. take deep breaths and tell yourself it is okay! besides! your young! you have your whole life to meet and love guys. everything will be alright. :)

[Contra]

That's too bad... :(

Maybe he's confused, is he sure of what he said to you?
If he is, than the best you should do is get over him, I know it's hard, but it's the best for you, so you don't get hurt.

Or you can wait, maybe he'll make up his mind and realize he likes you.

Good luck Paula! :)