View Full Version : Help Please
Azza
November 5th, 2009, 11:19 PM
Does anyone feel that they are attracted to guys, but don't want to be? Not that being gay is bad, I just don't want to be. I haven't honestly felt any attraction to girls for the past two years, just guys...Is this maybe just puberty and maybe when I am 18/19 or in my early twenties, this will pass? Has anyone felt the same way but is now older and no longer feels this way?
diamond jetstream
November 6th, 2009, 12:55 AM
yeah i had it for a while but i couldnt fight it and it is better to be at peace with your mind and not have inner turmoil you are the way you are and sooner or later you wont feel any negativity towards these feelings
sam i am
November 6th, 2009, 10:38 AM
just be proud of who u are ..if u like guys so what. U can't deny your feelings if u do your basically saying your going to live your whole life a lie. Just accept it. If u need to talk to anyone don't be afraid to pm me
thepieman
November 6th, 2009, 12:25 PM
I'll be honest, I tried to fight off being bi for ages. I thought I was for about a year before finally accepting it this summer. Now it doesn't bother me, and now that I'm "out" I'm actually quite proud of it. Just be happy with who you are.
Azza
November 6th, 2009, 05:04 PM
I have thought about acceptance, but it is hard for me to accept something I don't want to accept. I try to be happy with who I am, but most of me/my mind wants to grow up, have a wife, family, kids, a nice white house with a little dog to! It is just the sexual part, the attraction to guys.
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