girlfriend problem

[Brett]

so tonight i chilled with my girl... we had talked about having sex earlier and she sounded like she wanted to..(she has had sex, and im a virgin) tonight at her house.. i kept asking her when we were making out.. but she kept saying not now.. i want to please her so bad.. but it seems like there is some sort of problem, some times she seems like she wants to do it.. but when im ready she like doesn't want to.. i have a feeling that if i were her old boyfriend she would have sex with me in a second... IS IT SOMETHING that has to do with me being a virgin..???? what you guys think.. please help me. thank youuu

[R&b_Boy]

what does dis have to do wit puberty?

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

Sex related.. nothin to do with puberty..

[Elscire]

Sex related.. nothin to do with puberty..
word.... she's just nervous by the way.

[Fruitloop0111]

still to do with relationships [request move to relationships]

but it may ormay not have to do with u bein a virgin. dont keep asking "Can we make out now!", that just gets annoying!! i no!

take it slow, be romantic tho!!

[Just...Will]

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[mike1]

why in the hell are you guys making out if you arent girlfriend/boyfriend and why would you have sex with somebody you dont love?

[northskater110]

this has to do with sex........................ um do it!!
i would!!!:)

[Aηdy]

if she doesnt want to, she doesnt bloody want to, dont force her into it

[kolte]

most likely shes a virgin.
shes not ready to have sex.
she told you shes had sex because she wants to impress you.
thus she likes you.
and wants you to think shes cool.
so don't rush her, and be gental.
don't break what could seemingly be a good thing.

[Underage_Thinker]

Ya, how she is acting is not b/c of you. so ya just take it nice and slow.

[Elscire]

don't let your hormones get the best of you! its best if you guys waited a bit longer before doing it supose.

[krzwis]

sex is lust. and lust is NOT LOVE.

Belive me when i tell you that if your focas is sex, you don't really love her/understand love.

maybe you should give it a try? try forgetting sex, you might just be happy you did

[kolte]

you make it seem like sex is bad.
sex is human connection at its highest level.
its an exposure of vonerability that you can only reveal to a lovedone.
yes, some people just fuck to fuck.
but its so much more then that.
its devotion.
its a promise.
"i'm yours and your mine"
its a sealed deal.
how can you cheat on sombody if there is no sex in a relationship?
think about that./