Problem :/

[The Madness.]

OK, so I used to be friends with this girl. but we got in a huge fight about 3 weeks ago and im just trying to ignore her. but she still continues on trying to tell ppl she could 'beat my ass', but all i do is tell her to stop acting so immature. Now this other girl, who hates me cuz of the other incident, keeps commenting on my fotos on fb going all 'eww hoe' and i just tell her to move on and get a life. but she also tries to tell ppl shes gonna 'kick my ass' but she avoids me, and this has been goin on for about 4 weeks. What should i do? because i know that there is going to be anpther incident....idk what to do..:what:

[Sugaree]

You can nail her on cyber-bullying. Commenting on Facebook with "hoe" is cyber-bullying. Cyber-bullying is a very effective form of bullying, and she's using it to her advantage. You need to report this to the principles. You should gather proof of this by taking screenshots of said comments and print them to present.

As for her saying she could 'beat your ass' and backing down: She's acting tough, and this is easy to ignore. Going around saying you can beat someone in a fight and always make sure that whenever you see the person, walk away from them is just her talking the talk, but not walking the walk. If she starts to provoke you, then ignore her. Judging by her attitude, she might take action. But, maybe she won't. We can't tell. She might continue this for a length of time, you don't know. If it goes to the point where she is verbally challenging you, then back down. Why? Because if you are ignoring her, then she should have gotten the message that you are over her bullshit and are going on with your life.

It's obvious that she won't get on with her life because she's holding on to what you said to her. Let her. It's her decision, but it's a bad one.

I wish you the best of luck. This is all the advice I can offer you. I hope it all goes the way you want it.

[cherry_boi]

i disagree with Rubicon :p (about the whole cyber bullying and gonig to ur principal)

lol sry >.<

but imo bullying is gunna happen no one can stop it, u can delay it but it'll happen

better plan it to learn to deal with it rather then prevent it

ignoring her is probly a good thing, when they call u names don't respond, just don't

when u respond u give their opinion meaning

i suggest removing them from ur facebook

and stick with ur friends, and don't let ur friends try to start anything, they probly mean well but often times ur friends will go on the offensive and just make things worse...if they bring it up simply say, idc what they have to say, doesn't bother me at all they can think wat they want, i'm ready to move on" and leave it at that

the more u focus on it the longer it will take to go away

u don't have to validate ur point of view or ur worth as a human being to them or anyone, trying to convince them of that will just make them fight that much harder against u

detach urself from them and their opinions and move on, they will eventually too