I don't fit...

[Stewart]

I don't fit into any sexuality.

Why? Well, none of them really suit me.

I'm not gay, because I want to marry a women, I like women.

I'm not straight, because I want a boyfriend/husband.

I'm not Bi, because I don't feel like looks matter. I don't think people are "sexy" I have to get to know them by liking them.

I've never liked a guy. I've liked a guys looks and I can imagine dating them, but I haven't really loved a guy.

I was in love with a girl, I mean, I loved her, she was awesome. Words can't explain how much I loved her. :wub:

I don't want a label. I want to be able to date whoever I like guy or girl.

So, what am I? Just like, if someone asked what I am....

Thanks

[Bougainvillea]

You sound like a teenager, trying to understand the wonders of the hormonal mind :)

[Stewart]

Don't hormones only affect sexual attraction?

[Bougainvillea]

I don't know. I know they can give you thoughts and crap like that.

[Don3]

I totally know where your coming from... well except the marry a guy or have a bf, i might experiment and if i like then we see from there but before that no. I think its just hormones and to me you are either Bi or Bi-curious ( there is a diff.... who knew.) but as vogue said your just a teenager going through puberty and your hormones will be anything but comforting at times but you just deal with it. Hope this helps. PM me if you want to talk more.:D

[nick]

I'm not Bi, because I don't feel like looks matter. I don't think people are "sexy" I have to get to know them by liking them.

I don't understand that statement at all, cant make any sense of it.

What you are is a person, that's all that matters. The other labels are all stupid in my opinion.

[greg95]

I don't fit into any sexuality.

Why? Well, none of them really suit me.

I'm not gay, because I want to marry a women, I like women.

I'm not straight, because I want a boyfriend/husband.

I'm not Bi, because I don't feel like looks matter. I don't think people are "sexy" I have to get to know them by liking them.

I've never liked a guy. I've liked a guys looks and I can imagine dating them, but I haven't really loved a guy.

I was in love with a girl, I mean, I loved her, she was awesome. Words can't explain how much I loved her. :wub:

I don't want a label. I want to be able to date whoever I like guy or girl.

So, what am I? Just like, if someone asked what I am....

Thanks
parker, being gay, gi or straight, that's only words. just go wherever ur heart leads u to, as u say, why needing a label ?

[thepieman]

I don't want a label. I want to be able to date whoever I like guy or girl.

So, what am I? Just like, if someone asked what I am....

Well, if you don't want a label you don't need one. But if you really want to confuse someone who isn't clued up, you could say you were Pansexual. You say you don't think you're bi as you don't feel looks matter, but you would fall in love because of the person they are, regardless of gender. Therefore, you could be Pansexual.

[Sapphire]

Well, if you don't want a label you don't need one. But if you really want to confuse someone who isn't clued up, you could say you were Pansexual. You say you don't think you're bi as you don't feel looks matter, but you would fall in love because of the person they are, regardless of gender. Therefore, you could be Pansexual.Pansexuality is basically bisexuality but expanded to transvestites and hermaphrodites because some people felt that it was incorrect for them as it only acknowledges two genders. Unless you are attracted to and would indeed date a transvestite or hermaphrodite, don't use it to "confuse people" or to mean that you don't let gender dictate who you date.

Bisexuals do not turn round and say "I feel like dating a woman now". They date the person who they are attracted to and gender does not factor into the equation.

[Severus Snape]

Omnisexual?

[Sapphire]

Omnisexual?
That's another name for pansexual.

[CaptainObvious]

I'm not Bi, because I don't feel like looks matter. I don't think people are "sexy" I have to get to know them by liking them.

Uhh.... about that, the rest ofyour post sounds like you're bisexual. Bisexual doesn't mean "I think looks matter", in case you weren't aware of that.

Your post is sort of like saying "I like guys, but I'm not gay"... sorry, yes you are.

[Sapphire]

Uhh.... about that, the rest ofyour post sounds like you're bisexual. Bisexual doesn't mean "I think looks matter", in case you weren't aware of that.

Your post is sort of like saying "I like guys, but I'm not gay"... sorry, yes you are.
I think you missed this:
I'm not gay, because I want to marry a women, I like women.

I'm not straight, because I want a boyfriend/husband.The OP sounds like a bisexual but is rejecting that because he has an incorrect view on what a bisexual is.

[nick]

I don't understand that statement at all, cant make any sense of it.

What you are is a person, that's all that matters. The other labels are all stupid in my opinion.

Uhh.... about that, the rest ofyour post sounds like you're bisexual. Bisexual doesn't mean "I think looks matter", in case you weren't aware of that.

Your post is sort of like saying "I like guys, but I'm not gay"... sorry, yes you are.

I think you missed this:
The OP sounds like a bisexual but is rejecting that because he has an incorrect view on what a bisexual is.
OK, sorry Parker if its not what you wanted to hear, but there's a degree on agreement here. I don't think any of us can understand your thought that being bisexual is about thinking that looks matter. Like I said before I dont really think labels are always helful, because for me sexuality is a sliding scale, not a series of labelled fixed points, but it we were going to use a label based on what you said in the original post in this thread it would be bisexual.

[Stewart]

So, am I bi then?

[keidriantiger]

So, am I bi then?

Probably. I'm Bi and I don't choose on looks, I choose on personality.

[Ghoti]

your headed down the path of bisexuality, my friend.

[Stewart]

But I've never liked a guy, but I want a boyfriend. I thought you had to like a guy, not just want a husband/boyfriend?

[Billy15]

Parker, I'm a bad one to be giving advice because I'm as confused as you, well almost lol, I know I'm not into girls sexually. Sure I would love to get married, have kids but I just don't see that heppening.

Tell ya what. as I see it, you are "YOU" period. No labels because you are unique, your an individual, one of a kind and I hope you stay that way. I liked what Gregory said, follow your heart, be yourself and screw all the label madness.

[MisterMonster]

You sound pansexual, which to me has always been the best sexuality to be. Falling in love with people. n'awwwww. Good times

[Sapphire]

You sound pansexual, which to me has always been the best sexuality to be. Falling in love with people. n'awwwww. Good timesSo you would be ok with marrying and having sex with a transvestite or a hermaphrodite?

Pansexuals are open to relationships with males, females and those who fall outside of these two gender constructs.
Only use the term if that ^ applies to you.

[Stewart]

So, I'm still confused. I think i'm bi, but i feel like i'm lying when i say it to myself

[Quick_Sylver]

Do you really need to label yourself? If you do, then you are you. Uniqueness is a label. *shrug* My two cents,
TP

[Severus Snape]

Well, if you want a boyfriend or husband, chances are you will end up liking a guy even if you haven't liked one already. You can't make apple juice without the apple.

[Stewart]

Okay, thanks TootsiePop and Meteoric

[Severus Snape]

No problem dude, hopes things clear up for you. :)

[Quick_Sylver]

No prob.

[Stewart]

So, update, I was talking to my friend and he said that I was lying to myself. That I'm straight but wanting to be bi. Like a faker. I don't know. This isn't true, if it was, I wouldn't like guys. I've been keeping a journal with my feelings and I'd thought I'd share:

"Ugh, I hate feeling this way. I don’t want to be straight. I don’t care if it’s a boy or a girl as long as they love me. WTF is going on. You know what I need to do. Get some sleep and stop dwelling on it. You’re really just making it harder. Take a deep breath and stop thinking about it will you? Be a teenager. Okay, going to bed. Bye"

"I want a nice cute guy that’s funny, nice, and awesome. I want to go to the mall, and hang out and hug and hold hands and walk down the street and hold hands and talk about life and everything. I totally want to date a guy. It would be so magical. We would hang out all the time and hug and kiss."

"I thought hormones just affected sexual thoughts, because i have those about girls and guys, but mostly guys. I'm very sexually attracted to both sexes.

When I tell myself I'm bi, it doesn't sound right, like i'm lying, but I really don't care what gender, i don't see gender, i see personality and how nice they are."

And, I don't think that seems straight...but...maybe I am lying to myself?

[zgrazier]

Your like me.
Pansexual.
XD

[Stewart]

Your like me.
Pansexual.
XD

But I'm not sure I would want to date a transvestite. Although, I couldn't care, they are who they are.

But, I'm definatly bi right?

[Quick_Sylver]

Most likely