Ok. This is Long and Detailed

[BlackBetty]

Ok....... Here we go.. I have only told my closest friend this story...... In no way am I promoting the use of alochol and drugs.

Ok, I have propbably smoked pot for almost one year now. Over the summer I went to my friends house and we got drunk and high. I was terribly drunk and so where my two friends (a guy and girl). Me and the girl went to the bathroom at the same time, they was seperated by like something like a clostet door that she can lock on her side, etc. Then next thing I know, she came in there and me and her started playing with each other. Then it turned into more... I don't remember if we had sex and neither does she. Is this wrong of me and her?????

We have talked about it with each other and tried to figure it out, but it's like if our mind don't want us to know the truth that we did together. Is our mind holding us back from what happened? I really love her:wub::wub:, and I want to know if I lost my virginity to her because if she does I want to date her. She really is a pretty girl.

Then a few days later we got some more weed and we smoked it together while her mom and dad was asleep that nite. And I don't remember much when we did that together. I think that we didn't do anything sexual that time. But I know we did when we was drunk, and I just don't know what we did with/to each other.

Please don't tell me that I shouldn't drink and smoke weed, I ALREADY KNOW!!!

:what::what::whoops::P

[Rainstorm]

To me, It's not exactly right that you two got drunk and high, and then possibly had sex. What if, using the possibility that because of the intercourse, she had gotten pregnant? What then? You're 15, and taking that chance isn't good. Even if you are drunk and don't/can't remember, it's reckless.

Also, if you want to date her, that's fine. The possibility of you already having lost to your virginity to her means nothing in that matter. If you like her, take the chance.

All I'm saying, you have to be careful what you do when doing these kind of things. They don't affect me, so I won't say don't do it. Just be careful around these kinds of things.

[BlackBetty]

To me, It's not exactly right that you two got drunk and high, and then possibly had sex. What if, using the possibility that because of the intercourse, she had gotten pregnant? What then? You're 15, and taking that chance isn't good. Even if you are drunk and don't/can't remember, it's reckless.

Also, if you want to date her, that's fine. The possibility of you already having lost to your virginity to her means nothing in that matter. If you like her, take the chance.

All I'm saying, you have to be careful what you do when doing these kind of things. They don't affect me, so I won't say don't do it. Just be careful around these kinds of things.

I know we shouldnt have done what we did. I should have had a condom, but even if i did i probably couldnt get it on. I think of that everyday. I am too young to have a child and would feel terrible for her.

But is there something in your mind that prevents you from remembering certain things?

[Gumleaf]

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