Do you have to have sex to know your gay?

[drewlink99]

I don't think so, I haven't had sex, but I KNOW I'm attracted to guys...

[unknown2011]

if you're attracted to guys then you might be gay. you don't need sex to know.

[drewlink99]

if you're attracted to guys then you might be gay. you don't need sex to know.

Thats what I keep telling people, but that say I have to do it to know for sure.
I don't care though.

[unknown2011]

lol. that sounds like a really badly made up myth from a church. (no offense to anyone)

[drewlink99]

Ha! It does! I think people know who they are, most people anyway...

[guacamole24]

No, you do not have to have sex with a man to know that you're attracted to them. You know in your heart what you are attracted to, or who you are attracted to. Even if you can't figure it out yet, just enjoy it for what it is.

BTW: Yeah, I'm pretty sure some churches say, instead of the "man will not lie with another man as he would a woman" philosophy, you are not sinning if you don't have sex with a man ever. You basically have to be celibate forever.

[Giles]

Of course not.
If your attracted to guys, not girls. and you know you'd like to have sex with guys then chances are that your gay.
I (for example) I KNOW that I'm pretty much gay, some1 in my year KNOWS that I and him are gay. Neither of us have had sex with guys (or each other) but he's sure he's gay and I'm pretty sure.

[JackOfClubs]

You don't have to have sex to know your sexuality. If you are physically and emotionally attracted to guys, and have no feelings for women, then you are gay. If you have feelings for both men and women, then you are bi.

[Suicune]

You don't have to have sex to know your sexuality. If you are physically and emotionally attracted to guys, and have no feelings for women, then you are gay. If you have feelings for both men and women, then you are bi.

Pretty much, yeah.:yes:

[clone]

You don't have to have sex to know your sexuality. If you are physically and emotionally attracted to guys, and have no feelings for women, then you are gay. If you have feelings for both men and women, then you are bi.

agreed screw everyone elses philosyphe's :D

[trev16]

If you think about guys(and never girls) in a sexual way even if you do not have sex I believe you are gay.

[short boy big]

If you are attracted to guys then u are most likely gay however maybe some experimenting can help, i mean it can't hurt...... or can it...

[thisqboy4u]

Until yesterday, I had not touched another guy. But i have been looking for a while. And having feelings for a while too. So I am pretty sure I am gay, but have not had sex.

[drewlink99]

See, I've touched a guy too, but I knew before that!
I don't understand why people think you have to test things! It is NOT like food!!!

[gone]

I dont think you do
if you are attracted to other males then you may be gay

have fun :P

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Billy15]

I never had sex and I'm fairly sure that i'm gay. I might be wrong but i don't think you have to have sex to know and it's just something inside you that lets you know, like things you think about and dream about and just weird feelings inside yourself but i might be wrong.

[Grinchilla]

What happens if you don't like gay sex physically but you liked straight physically? like you found it more pleasurable. Would you than not be gay? I don't think so. Relationships are more than sex. And you already have discovered that you only have emotions with men. No sex needed to know that.

Good luck, hon.

[polarbear]

i think so

[Nerdsaver]

But there is a difference between a sexual attraction and emotional. If you just like having sex with guys more then girls, your not nescesarily gay. Being gay is actually loving guys.

[drewlink99]

I love em', it might sound wrong, but I do.
But, having an emotional attraction to guys Before sex, and are still turned on by them...
I think that makes you gay... That's basically me!

[beedubs]

nope, im gay and have never had sex.... with a girl ;)

[zgrazier]

if you like guys
then why do sometihng with them to prove it,
ur minds already decided.

[Kitty Purry]

I beleve that u don't have to have sex to know. But it can help

[charlie3322]

i had sex with my bf after a year!!! i knew i loved for a lonh time and knew i was gay.

[AutumnDae]

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