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PinkGrass
November 4th, 2009, 01:19 PM
I need help please..
I done it again last night..
I was sure I stopped but i didn't..
And today is even worse..
Please help..

ErykaInspire.
November 4th, 2009, 01:38 PM
Cutting is very hard to stop. Trust me.
Your guaranteed to relapse several times before you're entirely "cut-free".
I have been a cutter for over three years and I relapsed over 14 times.
Now i'm cut free since July 4th, 2009.
It gets easier after awhile, you just have to keep your head up.
Every time you do it again, then that gives you another reason to try harder next time.
Don't look at it as a failure. Everyday is an accomplishment.
Every single time you think "I don't want to cut" is a step towards your goal.

PM me if you need anything, ok?

<3

Contra
November 4th, 2009, 02:12 PM
If you really want to stop cutting, like Eryka said, is the first step. If you want to stop, you can set goals, small ones to start and then, as you start extending them, it should get easier.
Or you can take stress management classes, they really help.

Burnthecity
November 4th, 2009, 02:59 PM
It will get easier, i promise you that, you go through times in your life that are hard, and you turn to cutting, some of those times, you dont even realise its hard, its little things that make you turn to cutting
i know ive been cutting for almost 2 years now, and its not fun, its a shitty way to live
but all we can do is keep strong
you have to belive that you can quit
you gonna belive that you can live a better life
believe that you dont need cutting
cause its true, you really dont
your stronger then this!

leme know if you need anything
were all here for you