Complicated

[Lifepulses]

I've never really liked anyone, and this is my first relationship.
I think that I think that i " never realyl liked anyone" because, the media makes the " crush" feeling seem OVERWHELMING. and that has never happened to me. But i do obsess over people, but i usually think thats just " i want to be there friend".

And i don't know if i'm gay or not..
so here's my little ... problem.. that i need help with

Okay i'm just going to use PERSON A, and PERSON B. to keep this anonymous.
FYI PERSON A, B, and I are guys.

I was talking to Person A, and he was also talking to Person B (it was on msn, so it was 2 seperate conversations). And Person A has been crushing on Person B for 3 months, but Person A likes me now. But Person B wants to date Person A. And Person A, would rather have me, but Person B starts to cut and do drugs when bad things happen ( such as Person A rejecting Person B). So what Person A plans on doing is, to date Person B first, and then date me after.

The thing is, i don't know if i'm gay. And i feel like he might not like my personality, and he'll like Person B more, althought PERSON A is dating me AFTER he dates PERSON B, so i'm scared if he doesn't like me and wants to go back to Person B, he wont be able to.

[NightFighter]

This is a bad bad idea!
Person B will feel a hell of a lot worse if Person A dates them then dumps them. Think about it. Person B will feel even more rejected and hurt if he thinks he is given a chance but it fails. Dont let Person A date them if they know they relationship will not last. Its just cruel.

As for your problem. If you dont know if you are homosexual then dont date Person A. It would not be fair on him. Dont jump into a relationship for the sake of being in one. If it doesnt work out and you realise you aren't gay then Person A will be hurt and your friendship may be ruined. Become better friends with Person A. That way you wont have to worry about him disliking your personality and a lot of pain will be saved.

[Contra]

The first thing to do is to be sure you're gay or not. And even if you are, you are not forced to like Person A. I think you are being used as a disposable diaper, Person A is playing with your and Person B's feelings.
You should talk to Person A and tell him to choose between you and Person B. Don't forget you're not forced to date him.