is this abuse? no arguements please

[clone]

well my brother is constently annoying me im suffering from series headaches and migranes because of this.
it's part of the reason of my depresion and recent self harm. he does annoying clicking tapping noices screams and a lot of other stuff for HOURS STRAIT.
sometimes it's so annoying i think im crazy because no one could be that annoying and my parents dont care now days i dont even know if its really happening :frown:
is this abuse? or am i going mad???

[unknown2011]

how old is he? the behavior seems that of a small child.

[clone]

i forget i really dont care 10-12 i think? he acts 4

[unknown2011]

so it seems that he acts 4.
i think, maybe, this is your brothers way of burning off energy. i'm probably wrong, but thats my guess. and your parents probably overlook it because he is a child.

[clone]

he's not like this to anyone else and when i want to hit him i cant because for some STUPID FUCKING REASON!!! he can hit me but if i hit him i get the SHIT YELLED OUT OF ME!!! :mad: and in series trouble because he cries about everything and takes advantage of this GOD DAMN IT I'M PISSED! i feel like grabbing my knife right now and stabbing him REAPETIVLY hahaha that was i good laugh maybe ill just climb out my window and walk to no where just walk...and walk... intel i die or punch the mirror by me...

[unknown2011]

DON' DO IT! violence is not always the answer.
like i said, its most likely is because he is an immature child. not much you can do to a child without crushing his hopes and fears. does anyone else know that he does this?

[clone]

noo one knows/cares and i just think violent never even been in a fight (VERY suprising) :D well im wanting to punch a wall and break my knuckles (NO idea why my mind is just fucked up might have mental illnesses besides neurosis) the sound of the loud crack to muffle my brothers screams slamming head into a window on my bus cuncusion so my thoughts flow away glass for blood and blood to calm down and people staring at me to confirm my thoughts that im being stared at. and finnaly... to express how i feel

[theOperaGhost]

No, it's not abuse...it's just annoying. Why don't you just umm...get away from him. I really think you're complaining for no good reason.

[clone]

i cant he's always home and my parents are always keeping me inside or if i go out he follows it sucks! only peace is before he gets home but ughh i just want to die right now

[theOperaGhost]

Get headphones. Put them in your ears. Turn up music. You are overreacting so horribly.

[clone]

it's what i do and now my parents think something wrong with me and there very right but i deny it so they dont feel bad but my newest thread in the white padded room has made me feel less down but more crazy i reccomend reading it...

[NightFighter]

Sounds like he is just wanting some attention.
Try to ignore him and dont react to his immature ways but when he eventually stops you could try spending time with him and get to know him.
Tell your parents he is bothering you.
They will be worried about you. If you tell them then maybe they will try to help.
If it is him just trying to burn some energy then taking him swimming would be ideal. There he can burn enough energy to be tired when you get home and if he gets too loud the lifeguards will sort him out for you.

[drewlink99]

Have you tried to explain to him how it makes you feel?

[MacMilker]

try to do some activities with him like shooting baskets, or relay races. when hes tired he might be less annoying. you could also bribe him, have a bag of his favorite candy and if he asks for some say no, and if he says why say because you contently annoy me, and work out a deal that you will share if he isn't as annoying to you. eventually he will grow up. and how do you not know how old your brother is...?

[clone]

Have you tried to explain to him how it makes you feel?

he does not care it's as if it's his life and he does it around other people only thing that sounded like it would work would be the candy bribe but i have no money :frown:

[BlackBetty]

He wants attention... And he is being a boy..... Give him some slack he is young... Dont hurt yourself, it want do nothing but hurt everyone around you.