What do girls look for in a guy?

[Skeletal-Chic]

I wanna know what the "ideal" guy would be. Emotionaly, Physicaly, Personality etc. :rolleyes:

[DecemberRain]

For me, my ideal guy would be someone who is honest, someone I can trust, someone I can tell everything and anything to, they aren't scared to show emotion, someone caring, someone suportive. I don't really pay much attention to looks but its always a plus if they are attractive. Just a nice person in general I guess.

[jack straw]

I have the same question, because the below description fits me pretty well. Problem is I cant seem to get any girls to notice me:confused:
For me, my ideal guy would be someone who is honest, someone I can trust, someone I can tell everything and anything to, they aren't scared to show emotion, someone caring, someone suportive. I don't really pay much attention to looks but its always a plus if they are attractive. Just a nice person in general I guess.
I would think that ^ the discription above would be what almost any girl would want; somebody supportive, somebody careing and honest who you can tell anything too... so why do I have such trouble getting girls to even talk to me?

[Quick_Sylver]

My perfect guy would be able to keep up to me on every level and surpass me some areas...as taking care of me and such....
Jerry- Girls probably notice you but are afraid of you...maybe befriend a girl you know...friends is the first step... above all else be yourself...that'll get you more dates than being someone else....just my two cents

[The Madness.]

My perfect guy would have to be honest and faithful. Love me for what I really am. In the physical looks, he has to have pretty eye :). haha and in emotional, I don't want my prefect guy crying all the time, but not have no emotions at all. He shouldn't be afraid to shed a tear. Lastly, he shouldn't only care about my looks or whatever anyone else thinks about it. :D xD

[jack straw]

My perfect guy would be able to keep up to me on every level and surpass me some areas...as taking care of me and such....
Jerry- Girls probably notice you but are afraid of you...maybe befriend a girl you know...friends is the first step... above all else be yourself...that'll get you more dates than being someone else....just my two cents
Why would they be afraid of me? i'm not really much to be afraid of! I'm just naturally a person who honest, careing, very supportive, not to emotional but definately not a robot, and I'm probably the most loyal creature on the face of the earth.

[Quick_Sylver]

Why would they be afraid of me? i'm not really much to be afraid of! I'm just naturally a person who honest, careing, very supportive, not to emotional but definately not a robot, and I'm probably the most loyal creature on the face of the earth.

Because you're a guy (I'm serious, I've met girls who were terrified by guys). They're afraid because you might break their heart by any means possible. They don't know if you're the sort of guy who'd use them or one who'd actually be in a relationship.

[Sage]

Instead of trying to look good to all women, (It's impossible) try finding a girl you fancy and learn what she likes. Hell, better yet, find one that would like you for who you are.

[cherry_boi]

i'm a guy but ima answer anyway cuz i'm bi and i dig guys :P

umm charisma is probly the most important factor in whether or not i like a guy or girl for that matter, loyalty is super important too

intelligence, sincerity, honesty, passion

sense of humor

and someone that tells it like it is and doesn't put up with my bull shit :P

[jack straw]

Because you're a guy (I'm serious, I've met girls who were terrified by guys). They're afraid because you might break their heart by any means possible. They don't know if you're the sort of guy who'd use them or one who'd actually be in a relationship.
...Well, I can say thats probably true, because I can make a crazy first impression... Nobody really gives me the chance to show them any more than that. I'm defintaly not the kinda guy who would use somebody, I would LOVE to find a girl who loves me for who I am, to be in a real relationship with. Whatta you ladies suggest I do?

[Bluearmy]

Oh g00dness I am 1ike women replant. Just do/say the opposite of everything I do/say and you should be aces irl.

[Kaius]

I have the same question, because the below description fits me pretty well. Problem is I cant seem to get any girls to notice me:confused:

I would think that ^ the discription above would be what almost any girl would want; somebody supportive, somebody careing and honest who you can tell anything too... so why do I have such trouble getting girls to even talk to me?

I can ask the same question :/

[Quick_Sylver]

...Well, I can say thats probably true, because I can make a crazy first impression... Nobody really gives me the chance to show them any more than that. I'm defintaly not the kinda guy who would use somebody, I would LOVE to find a girl who loves me for who I am, to be in a real relationship with. Whatta you ladies suggest I do?

Hmm I'm not sure I'm a wild card so I'd probably be intrigued by you from what you said :rolleyes: Maybe ask a girl/group of girls if they want to go to a group thing? I really dunno. (same thing to you Kaius)

[DecemberRain]

How are you sure nobody likes youI have the same question, because the below description fits me pretty well. Problem is I cant seem to get any girls to notice me:confused:

I would think that ^ the discription above would be what almost any girl would want; somebody supportive, somebody careing and honest who you can tell anything too... so why do I have such trouble getting girls to even talk to me?

[jack straw]

Hmm I'm not sure I'm a wild card so I'd probably be intrigued by you from what you said :rolleyes: Maybe ask a girl/group of girls if they want to go to a group thing? I really dunno. (same thing to you Kaius)

What kinda group thing? lol

Decemberrain:

MOST people dont like me. I've asked quite a few girls out an they just laugh in my face like 'Yea right, you wish'.

[Grey fox]

My ideal guy would be -

my current boyfriend, but not ill, no heart problem and a lot hornier.

Other then that hes damn near perfect, and we started off as friends after we discovered we had the same sense of humour.

For you guys who are convinced nobody likes you but are still activley seeking - just chill out, stop trying so hard, be yourself, and keep your eyes and mind open to anyone who likes you for the way you are.

I bet most of you have got a girl who secretly fancies the pants off of you but who you won't consider because you're too blind to see her.

[jack straw]

My ideal guy would be -

my current boyfriend, but not ill, no heart problem and a lot hornier.

Other then that hes damn near perfect, and we started off as friends after we discovered we had the same sense of humour.

For you guys who are convinced nobody likes you but are still activley seeking - just chill out, stop trying so hard, be yourself, and keep your eyes and mind open to anyone who likes you for the way you are.

I bet most of you have got a girl who secretly fancies the pants off of you but who you won't consider because you're too blind to see her.

"And alot hornier" ROFLAMO

Actually, Methinks I have found a Girl:wub:♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥hailey:)

[Quick_Sylver]

"And alot hornier" ROFLAMO

Actually, Methinks I have found a Girl:wub:♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥hailey:)

group thing= movies with mutual acquaintances

ooh Good Luck!

[SGT_]

I look for a down to earth personality preferably a pacifist. Someone who is naturally kind hearted & honest. Good sense of humor never goes astray either.

Looks arent that important though I tend to go for guys over 6ft subconsiously.
As long as they are healthy...theres nothing attractive about petruding bones or excessive rolls of flab. & for some odd reason I don't like big dicks.. /:

I like a guy who isnt affraid to show his emotions, just as long as they dont always come off as negative pessamistic ones.. but thats not really an emotional thing.. its more of a personality aspect.

[Grey fox]

"And alot hornier" ROFLAMO

Actually, Methinks I have found a Girl:wub:♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥hailey:)

Woah, don't go overboard. Most girls will get a little freaked out if you start obsessing over them... And you've known this girl for what, 2/3 days and already you are surrounding her name with hearts?? jeesh, take it easy!

And what's wrong with wanting your boyfriend to be hornier??

[clone]

And what's wrong with wanting your boyfriend to be hornier??

nothing :)

[Sage]

I wanna know what the "ideal" guy would be. Emotionaly, Physicaly, Personality etc. :rolleyes:

Huge penis.

[DecemberRain]

Nah, he is perfectly fine with doing that<3Woah, don't go overboard. Most girls will get a little freaked out if you start obsessing over them... And you've known this girl for what, 2/3 days and already you are surrounding her name with hearts?? jeesh, take it easy!

And what's wrong with wanting your boyfriend to be hornier??

[Kaius]

Haileys a good friend of mine, and i know for a fact that since shes been with jerry hes made her happy :) so id like to thank him for that, just look after her k?

[jack straw]

Nah, he is perfectly fine with doing that<3 :yeah:haha WOO

Haileys a good friend of mine, and i know for a fact that since shes been with jerry hes made her happy :) so id like to thank him for that, just look after her k?
Thanks Aaron :) Dont worry mate, I'll take good care of her :D.

[Grinchilla]

I can't give 3 and some billion different answers, however I'm a loser and talk to a lot of girls online ranging from zzzzz to bloody crazy.
Physically: I think buff and gruff is out. More thin (maybe weak) and fashionable... more things in common perhaps! I am however not fashionable at all, so out with that for moi :p
Emotionally: Appreciative.
Personality: random. I think girls like random and crazy a lot.

[jack straw]

Guys just be yourself, an eventually you will find somebody. I was always a guy who thought he would be single and lonely forever, but when I least expected it, I found my girl Haileyyyy ;)

[RaeNose]

See.
I think the biggest turn off for me when it comes to guys is that fact that they don't do/say anything! They're so afraid to talk to girls and tell them how they feel, and it bores me.

[Sammi13]

With looks, I don't really care much. As long as he's not really overweight and takes care of himself, like keeping himself nice and clean and trying to take care of their bodies. I would be a hypocrite if I said I wouldn't date someone who is a bit overweight because I'm a bit overweight. Another thing that isn't really a deal breaker but something I don't prefer is a guy with too much muscles. It makes them look like the spend too much time working on their muscles and that get's really annoying.
I wouldn't date someone who did illegal drugs. I don't wanna get mixed up with anyone like that. And I wouldn't date somone who drinks a lot. My dad is an alcoholic and he's made parts of mine and my families lives a living hell because of it. And I probably wouldn't date a smoker either. It's just gross.
I would want a guy to be sensitive but not always treating me like a ticking time bomb. I like joking around and just being comfortable with someone. If he wants to make fun of my messy hair, he can. I don't care if he doesn't as long as he's not embarassed or something. And a big thing is having a guy you can trust. I would never ever EVER put up with someone cheating on me. If someone cheated on me, they would be sooooo gone. I also couldn't deal with someone close-minded. It drives me insane.

[Truth]

I'll assume you're not finished high school, so why can't you get every girl to like you? Because you're not a hot jerk with alot of money, and you actually care about people, and you probably don't walk around hitting on girls, either. In high school/middle school, MOST girls want hot jerks, they might say differently, but it's not the truth.

[Quick_Sylver]

I'll assume you're not finished high school, so why can't you get every girl to like you? Because you're not a hot jerk with alot of money, and you actually care about people, and you probably don't walk around hitting on girls, either. In high school/middle school, MOST girls want hot jerks, they might say differently, but it's not the truth.

How long have you been studying us?

[Truth]

How long have you been studying us? In the eight years i've been ridiculed and tortured by girls because I don't look good, that's how long. Also, I said most girls. There's the odd girl who doesn't care about looks, but yeah, not often. (Also, those girls are usually the ones who spend alot of time online. Most girls I meet on places like this don't care about looks, but in real life, so so much different.)

[Quick_Sylver]

In the eight years i've been ridiculed and tortured by girls because I don't look good, that's how long. Also, I said most girls. There's the odd girl who doesn't care about looks, but yeah, not often. (Also, those girls are usually the ones who spend alot of time online. Most girls I meet on places like this don't care about looks, but in real life, so so much different.)

Hm. Girls as shallow as that don't deserve anyone. Well, there's also the fact(with a few exceptions) That anyone you grow up with won't exactly be a match. Oh well.