View Full Version : I Am Hating Myself
tyler27846
November 2nd, 2009, 11:08 PM
I am starting tohate myself iknow i am bi and i just wish i wasnt and i knowi cant helpit but there is this one dude who really likes me but i dont really like him that way just yet but there is this girl i really like and ido want her and i dont know what to do ijust wish i could be straight sometimes
Don3
November 2nd, 2009, 11:14 PM
Why are you getting upset you get the best of both worlds (plus at least you now what your sexual orientation is.) and its pretty simple just tell the guy you don't feel the same way and bag the girl ( bag is slang for get her to go with you.) don't be shy just tell her how you feel, worst case scenario you get rejected yes it hurts but its better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.Hope this helps.
sam i am
November 2nd, 2009, 11:19 PM
Yes don't be sad be proud of who u are ik it's hard in this world just be u tho. Like just lying to ur self making ur self straight wouldn't do anything its who u are be true to ur self.Im bi my self yea i did hate my self i even cut my self(DOnt u dare do that -_-) but i stop and soon i learn to accept my self and love other just the way they are. Pm me if u need any help or u want to talk to somebody
Don3
November 2nd, 2009, 11:25 PM
The guy ^^^^^ there...... i know him lol and he is right its alright to be Bi.
nick
November 3rd, 2009, 04:42 AM
Why are you getting upset you get the best of both worlds (plus at least you now what your sexual orientation is.) and its pretty simple just tell the guy you don't feel the same way and bag the girl ( bag is slang for get her to go with you.) don't be shy just tell her how you feel, worst case scenario you get rejected yes it hurts but its better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.Hope this helps.
Don3 has it right here, I dont see your problem? Tell the guy that you're not interested and make a move for the girl.
The Harlequin
November 4th, 2009, 06:13 PM
Really you shouldn't worry that much about being bi, it isn't the end of the world (I should know of all people as I was adamant it was ~ when actually I'm happier now than ever before) the only thing that really should be on your mind is how/when/if you're ready to come out, and who to etc...
I mean you'd have this problem with relationships if you weren't bi, just with two girls instead ~ we all have it at some point in our lives. Blaming your sexuality isn't really gong to get you anywhere ~ it's just going to make you feel bad to worse.
tyler27846
November 4th, 2009, 09:49 PM
thanks for helpin guysbut that dude and me are notfriends anymore so i dont need to worry about him and that girl that i like she was crushing on a guy but he asked out her best friend
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