URGENT Need advice from someone with experience.

[TheKingDavis]

Ok, im trying to phrase this right so i want get banned/locked

Ok heres the thing, i had sex in the 7th grade with a guy, but he had a condom on. every other time, the guy has had a condom.

now tomorrow night im going to have sex with a guy and he said he would prefer it bareback (w/o a condom)

my ? is, are there any dangers of getting cum inside of my anal?

Oh and before anyone asks, no he doesnt have any STDS

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[Stewart]

I would just wear the condom because of the lubrication. If you're not comfortable doing it, then don't. Just be safe

[Bougainvillea]

Well, not only is anal sex dangerous in general, he is in danger of getting an infection from the bacteria in your...ass. So, wear a condom. And I don't think there's any danger in with what you asked about.

[Silent]

Wear a condom :) Plain and simple.

[nick]

There is no danger from the cum if he really is free of STD's, but why take the risk. If you don't feel really happy about it then tell him its condom or no deal.

[thisqboy4u]

How do you know he is clean?????

[greg95]

Ok, im trying to phrase this right so i want get banned/locked

Ok heres the thing, i had sex in the 7th grade with a guy, but he had a condom on. every other time, the guy has had a condom.

now tomorrow night im going to have sex with a guy and he said he would prefer it bareback (w/o a condom)

my ? is, are there any dangers of getting cum inside of my anal?

Oh and before anyone asks, no he doesnt have any STDS

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are u sure he doesn't have STDs or STIs ?

because u can catch one at a moment, and it cant be detected until a few months after ! ;)

beware !

[NMon]

There's no problem, as long as neither of you have diseases that can be transmitted sexually. Of course if you have a small hole it'll hurt.

[TheKingDavis]

ok thanks guys, condom it is.

it should happen in a bit... im thinking about backing out tho.

[TheKingDavis]

so i backed out, got to scared.

[thisqboy4u]

If it doesn't feel right then DON'T DO IT!

[TheKingDavis]

Its just that its been a year since i did it, and it felt awkward... i think i probably wont do it

[cherry_boi]

if ur 100% sure he is clean and you are clean then no there is no danger of barebacking

[Billy15]

Dustin, friend to friend, no experience just common sense, wear the condom and if this guy really cares about you he won't ask you to do something that your not comfortable doing. Besides, yes there are dangers and I don't have to have experience to know that.
When you go to bed with someone, your also going to bed with anyone else he has ever gone to bed with and visa versa and unless he is a virgin, then can you really be sure of what dangers there might be? I don't want to bum you out but dude, I care and so should you.

[thepieman]

I think you made the right choice Dustin. You weren't sure and you backed out, which is the best thing to do. If you do want to do it with a condom in future, just try and ask him. If he doesn't respect that, then he isn't worth it.