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Stewart
November 1st, 2009, 06:25 PM
Ugh, I hate people...

I tell one person I'm bi and suddenly the whole school knows! Gah! I'm being teased and insulted and making me feel alone. I have many good friends that are always by my side, but sometimes, I feel like I don't have any because the hate overpowers the love...

Ugh, I wish I was straight....I wish I didn't want a boyfriend

mr.sexy_bomb
November 1st, 2009, 06:36 PM
dude its ok, school is only for a short period of time, and then you can be with someone if you want for the rest of your life so dont worry

sam i am
November 1st, 2009, 06:42 PM
awww im so sorry don't worry i went threw the same thing it took time when i was in 8th grade and soon everybody got used to it and it don't bother them and what i did helped other kids to come out..just hang in there my dude it will get better just be positive =) pm me if u wanna talk

NMon
November 1st, 2009, 10:10 PM
You just came out of the closet earlier than anyone else. It's okay, people'll get used to it.

Stewart
November 1st, 2009, 10:45 PM
You just came out of the closet earlier than anyone else. It's okay, people'll get used to it.

So there's an age where you are supposed to come out? No, I don't think so. I'm bi because I want to date guys and girls. I realized that this year and I'm accepting it.

tripolar
November 1st, 2009, 11:17 PM
I'm bi because I want to date guys and girls. I realized that this year and I'm accepting it.

Im not calling you out but sounds like your having a hard time accepting it if your saying things like:
Ugh, I wish I was straight....I wish I didn't want a boyfriend

mr.sexy_bomb
November 2nd, 2009, 09:34 AM
true i think it affects you so much not because of what people say but because of what you still and the fact that you know you cant change but you "wish" you could so its more about accepting who you are than people accepting you, and just try to calm down and think about everything thats going on, and just relax and after a while you might know what to do

VeniVidiVici
November 2nd, 2009, 11:45 AM
dude i went through the same thing. all you have to do is accept that everyone knows. If someone makes fun of u for being bi, just say "yea i am, what of it?". if you are bothered by everyone knowing, more people will use your unhappiness to make them feel bigger and better.

plus, the brightside... now that the whole school knows, the curious boys will know who to experiment with if they are curious... worked for me ;)

good luck bud

laurita_21
November 2nd, 2009, 12:30 PM
dont let them bring you down, its hu yu r and they hav to deal wiv it :D

Stewart
November 2nd, 2009, 01:21 PM
Thanks everyone :)

Watakanata
November 3rd, 2009, 03:24 PM
People may be teasing you but that's only because they feel insecure about yourself. I wish my school had known I was gay, maybe I would've gotten a few more dates that way. Teasing is just a thing people do cause they're just mad at their own lives, and trust me, I went through a LOT of teasing, and I realize now that's why they did it. You have friends that care about you anyways, and as long as you have them, no one else matters, even without them, no one's opinion is worth anything to you.