Going forward

[NMon]

I've been going out with a girl for about 5 weeks now, and I really like her. I think she likes me the same way, though not sure. We're in 8th grade, but I'm a year younger than her. Our friends are going out as well, and I think they occasionally kiss. I would like to start kissing my gf but she might be reluctant. We also never get any time alone to bring up anything relationship-wise.
Any help?

[Hyper]

Take your hands out of your pocket and make a move..

''Talking'' about kissing in relationships when your a teenager is just damn sad..

Confidence it sets people to follow you... Especially girls.... So when you've made up your mind just find the right moment and try it.....

Relationships aren't done by written guides

[NMon]

''Talking'' about kissing in relationships when your a teenager is just damn sad..

Lol. But nice advice anyway. Thanks.

[Hyper]

Lol. But nice advice anyway. Thanks.

Well if you want to talk to your teenage gf about ''kissing'' then I'm sure someone will come post a sticky type answer...

But yeah if you are smart.. Just go with what you feel.

[ILOVEYOU]

Try to meet her when she's alone, and try to go out with her, to a park or Cinema.. just make a private situation, and, ask her if she's ok with it.. and Go!.. Good Luck

[nick]

If you're not sure how she will react you can just ask "can I kiss you", who knows she might be just waiting and hoping.

[NMon]

I'm planning to go to the movies with a couple other friends (the ones that are dating). I'll try to sneak away then.

[Art_dude]

5 weeks and not a single kiss? Wow, you must really like this girl!
As Hyper said, having to discuss kissing with your girlfriend is just... sad lol
When you go to the movies, that would be a perfect opportunity. Just relax, take it easy, and don't think about it. I'm sure she's asking herself, "why the hell hasn't he kissed me yet?" lol

[swimfreak85]

write kiss me on her back nd ask he to say wht ur writtin nd she woul say "kiss me" thn kiss her nd say u told me to

[Quick_Sylver]

write kiss me on her back nd ask he to say wht ur writtin nd she woul say "kiss me" thn kiss her nd say u told me to

LOL!!!That's one way to figure it out but, the other ideas above are smarter.(no offense intended) Good Luck!

[Philip]

How to Have a First Kiss


1. Don't be Shy Girls want you to kiss them. If you like a girl, DON'T tell her you love her just to get a kiss.
2. Have a mint. Make sure you are kissably fresh.
3. Shave. Or don't. If you are going on a date with a girl you think you will want to kiss at some point, don't go with a five o'clock shadow or heavy stubble. Whisker burn is a true problem, and you will cut your kissing prospects seriously if you sand her face of with your stubble. Either go clean and baby-smooth, or let it grow out enough to be soft and tickly. A day or two's worth of whiskers will render you unkissable, except for the bare minimum. No girl wants to walk around with an itchy, red rash around her mouth for days just for the privilege of your kiss.
4. Respect her privacy. Most girls will not want to make out in front of others, especially if this is her first kiss. Find the right time when you can be alone. Privacy is the key.
5. Watch for signals. Watch carefully, because sometimes the signals can be confusing - she may flirt with you, then smack you on the head. These may just be coy games, or she may really be conflicted. Ask yourself these questions: Did you and your date seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together? Has she been flirting with you through body language? Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? Has she found excuses to touch you often? If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss!
6. Make eye contact. If she is comfortable and doesn't look away then she is ready.
7. Lean in slowly. Don't swoop in like a condor! Make it slow, nice, easy, romantic.
8. Hold her. Do not use a first kiss as your personal excuse to grope, grab, or get too familiar. Be a gentleman, for heaven's sake. Reach around her waist, gently draw her toward you (again, gentlemen, do not squish her up against you and then grind your pelvis against her).
9. Look into her eyes. Notice how we mention eye contact twice? Very important, amigo. Let her know that you are really seeing her.
10. Look at her lips. Aim, dude. Make sure you know where you're going. Lean in, and go in for the kiss.
11. Walk that fine line and make it a really excellent kiss. You don't want to give her a chaste little peck. You also don't want to (well, you may want to, but don't!) shove your tongue down her throat. An excellent first kiss is one that is romantic, tender and memorable. Your mouth should not be overly opened or closed, and it shouldn't be mushy or too tight (relax). Don't let it go too long (more than, say, 20 seconds) or let it be too short (3 seconds is not enough) - think around 10 seconds or so. A tiny hint of tongue is nice if she seems willing, but make it flirtatious and not insistent.
12. Wait for her response. Just remain silent and smile, better yet hug her, ending the first kiss in a lovely, intimate moment.
13. Body Language Watch her look for the telltale signs that she wants to kiss you like:looking at your lips, licking her lips and or biting her bottom lip.

[laurita_21]

" I'm sure she's asking herself, "why the hell hasn't he kissed me yet? "

yep, very true. if you dion't kiss her she's going to start thinking that your not into her. get some time alone with her and tell her how you feel. i think that would be really sweet :P:D

[KBS-Man]

Yo Man This Is What Im For
Just start To Hug Her Good Bye Then When You Feel Like yuor Ready Just Give her A Nice Little Kiss On The Cheak . Chicks Love When They Get Suprised Then Get A Friends To Say To Her And You When You Are Around Kis On The Lips Before You Go then When You Go Kiss On the Lips Then It Becomes a Reguler Ruteen .Its Great i never kissed a girl before and then i started to kiss her 2 -3 tomes a day

i realy hopes i helped

[cool person]

Dude, stop posting on here and kiss her! I'm sure she wants to kiss you as much as you want to kiss her.

[Beautiful Obsession]

agreed, she will probally want to kiss u just as much and u want 2 kiss her, so go for it x