Help. Fast.

[ctw4451]

I'm in the ninth grade in high school. I'm set on the fact that I am straight basically because I'm emotionally and physically attracted to girls. I'm unsure if I'm sexually attracted to them or not. Is there anyway I can speed the sexual attraction up like fast? I'm talking to this senior girl and she kind of wants to have sex. I do too because she's very dear to me, but I don't want to risk not getting "it up." Any help is good help! Thank you very much.

[nick]

Well have you tried kissing and making out or "heavy petting", if not it would seem a bit wierd to go straight into sex. You would normally find yourself getting horny in those situations.

To be honest it doesnt sound to me as if you're ready in your mind for taking it to the next stage, ie. having sex, in which case its a bad idea.

[Severus Snape]

Well, at 14 or 15 if you are straight I think it would be highly unlikely you wouldn't be able to get it up. If you do have problems getting erections at this age, I think it might be advisable to see a doctor about it

[mr.sexy_bomb]

ok you are a freshman, most freshmen are really horny so getting it up wont be a problem

[XxHaViiK]

Foreplay is the key if you are nervous. I was relatively nervous the first time, so we just laid on the couch and made out for a little over an hour. Nervousness was completely gone, and I was "up".

[MattHolyman41]

Dude, Believe me. I've had this problem once. But once I've touched a girl I got a boner. There's nothing like being unsure. If a girl touches you on some sensitive place you'll feel it.

[The Harlequin]

Especially if it's your wallet (X^.

Sorry, just felt like saying it...

[unknown2011]

if you do have sex with her, im sure you'll be so in the moment it'll just happen.

also, be safe!!