Change of Heart

[shikachunin]

After spending about 2 months at this new high school, i realized that my old crush was a total jackass. Now, I think i have a NEW crush! Hes a really nice guy, and he has a good sense of humor. Me and him are really close. So, everyone says we're going out. He never tries to react or say anything back, but he always cracks the slightest smile. I'm not sure what to assume about this! I really like him, but if i'm wrong and ask is he's gay, the friendship may be ruined... HELP!!!

[fohawk]

well maybe you could try to make small comments on his sexuallity and see if you can get any hints from that or you could try to confront him on it and take the risk or maybe he likes someone else ooh yeah i noticed you like souleater me too

[ryanmichael]

just kiss him because if he is smiling when people say ur dating hes waiting 4 yr move

[mr.sexy_bomb]

um i think kissing is going to far right now, but i think that if he smiles and hangs out with you then just ask him, thats the only way to know, and then if you two talk about it he might actually like you too, so just ask him, thats the best i can tell you to do :) good luck

[guacamole24]

um i think kissing is going to far right now, but i think that if he smiles and hangs out with you then just ask him, thats the only way to know, and then if you two talk about it he might actually like you too, so just ask him, thats the best i can tell you to do :) good luck

agreed

[Billy15]

Does he know that your gay? If he does and still smiles when people make jokes about you guys going out, then I would say that the odds are in your favor. Staying safe and secure usually doesn't win many medals and it sounds like you really like this guy. so sometimes you just got to take a chance. Either way, good luck to you, hope it works out.

[ericboi]

You can try asking him what he thinks about certain hot girls u both know. If he doesn't sound like he likes them then he may be gay and somebody for you. It might work.

[Uprising]

It sounds exactly like what happened to me. In my case I just started with some small talk and later asked him. urns out he was bi and had was crushing on me. Maybe you could try this or something else but hope this helps. Best of luck.

[thepieman]

Take your time with this. If you just go up to him and ask if he's gay he may take it badly, so try and ease in the question in a conversation. Explain that you are gay and just start talking about it, see what his reaction is. Then if he is gay or bi, then why not try and go further? Good luck!

[crayzdude]

i tired to ask my friend just by playing around and then im like seriouslly asked him and he said no just try to feel comfortable and make him feel comfortable too never go ahead or just say ur confused just try and see wat happens i guess

[zgrazier]

im in the same predicament.
just wait it out.
get closer to the guy.
because when your closer.
he will feel like he can tell you stuff.
best of luck.

<3

[HotJuan]

Just hang out with him for awhile and let him get used to hanging out with you and you get used to him. If you suspect something just wait and look for things that probably support that suspicion. If there are a lot of things ask him. I REALLY hope this helps.

[Aspiringanonymous]

I know you're trying to help, but please don't bump old threads, this is five months old :locked:

Thanks!