Confusing myself.

[Kaius]

Im hoping you can help me, i dont really know what else to do.
I posted about a month ago, about my ex and i splitting up after a 2 year relationship. shes now been in a relationship with someone else. but i cant shake these feelings for her, but she refuses to acknowledge it, and constantly ignores me. I really want to be friends, although id like more.

I keep messing it up. :/ my moods are like a cycle as she described it. one day im nice, the next im depressed, the next im begging her to come back, then she says no, i get upset/depressed/annoyed then i go back to how i was.

I really am remorseful for what i keep doing, because its hurting her. but i dont know how to show her. she doesnt believe me when i tell her, and actually laughed in my face when i told her i loved her earlier today.

What can i do to make it better, and how can i make this cycle stop?

[sebbie]

Im hoping you can help me, i dont really know what else to do.
I posted about a month ago, about my ex and i splitting up after a 2 year relationship. shes now been in a relationship with someone else. but i cant shake these feelings for her, but she refuses to acknowledge it, and constantly ignores me. I really want to be friends, although id like more.

I keep messing it up. :/ my moods are like a cycle as she described it. one day im nice, the next im depressed, the next im begging her to come back, then she says no, i get upset/depressed/annoyed then i go back to how i was.

I really am remorseful for what i keep doing, because its hurting her. but i dont know how to show her. she doesnt believe me when i tell her, and actually laughed in my face when i told her i loved her earlier today.

What can i do to make it better, and how can i make this cycle stop?

A relationship requires both members to have similar feelings for it each other to work, if she does not feel the same way about you then there is not much you can do.

This may sound hard, but I would advise you to try and move on, some space from each other may do your friendship good.

[IAMWILL]

Look, if its not going to work out, its not going to work out.

Basically, you need to get over this girl and not bother with her.

If its not meant to be its not meant to be, but don't worry, theres plenty of fish in the sea.

[Gumleaf]

i honestly think you need to give yourself time to move on from her in the romantic/girlfriend sense. i suggest you avoid contact with her for a while and concentrate on other aspects of your life for the time being. after your emotions and feelings for her settle down, which might take a while too, then it might be time to pursue a friendshp with her. but for now, the more you try, the further you will push yourself away from her. spend time apart for now.

[jack straw]

i honestly think you need to give yourself time to move on from her in the romantic/girlfriend sense. i suggest you avoid contact with her for a while and concentrate on other aspects of your life for the time being. after your emotions and feelings for her settle down, which might take a while too, then it might be time to pursue a friendshp with her. but for now, the more you try, the further you will push yourself away from her. spend time apart for now.

Exactly what I was going to say. Avoid all contact with her, and try and concentrate on other aspects of life. Its probably gonna be hard, but just try and get rid of everything that reminds you of her.
Once you have conqured the cycle of feelings, go ahead and pursue a friendship with her. **You will have to realize that it will be just a friendship, and as much as it may hurt, WILL NEVER BE anything more than a friendship or else the cycle will start back up again.