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Amyxoxo
October 29th, 2009, 05:08 PM
OK well i dont know where this will go so move is nesscery.

Well basically im going out with this guy. He is 17 and im 14. He seems really nice and i want to go and meet him, yea this is the thing....I have only mey him once and i got his number, we have been texting and calling eachother non-stop since we met eachother and now he keeps on asking me when we can meet up again. Now as you can imagine my friends and family are very pretective over me but they dont aprove of me going out with him as he is to old and i have only met him once. Well anyway you cant blame them when there are so many pedos and other nasty people out there and stuff like that.
Well anyways, what do i do? Do i go to meet with him myself? get someone to go with me? Just stop talking to him full stop? well anyways i dont know so can someone help me please :)
Thank you xx

cherry_boi
October 29th, 2009, 05:16 PM
i'd make ur first encounter a group thing, invite him to hang out with u and a friend or two, that way u can get their input too, and there will be less pressure on u and him to keep a conversation going, and if things go bad (if he turns out to be a creeper, or u decide u just don't like him) u'll have back up :P

but yea i wudn't go meet him by urself....and if u do, make sure it's in a public place like the mall or something...but even then ur taking a big chance, and make sure u tell someone what ur doing/where ur going...even if it's just a friend, better someone knows then nobody

lmao i sound like a parent -.-

Art_dude
October 29th, 2009, 08:46 PM
I completely agree with Cherry boi!

Go out on a group date or something. You and your friends will get to know him and if it turns out you two have nothing in common, you won't be sitting awkwardly in a restaraunt alone with him lol

However, if you choose to see him alone, make sure you are in a public setting and that your friends and/or family know where you're going and what your plans are - if in fact this guy turns out to be a major creeper, your friends will know that if you didn't call them after your date, something went wrong. Be safe! I'm sure he's a nice guy. You kids enjoy yourselves now. Hear?