Can i fix things?...

[Amyxoxo]

Well this is my first itme posting on the forum so hey :)
Anyway i need help with 2 mabie 3 things.
Thing 1 - I used to have loads of really good mates, we would go round eachothers houses and everything like that. They are still my mates now but im finding that they are not the same as they were. I think this may be down to me but i just dont know. Can you help me to find out why?

Thing 2 - I do have 1 really good mate, i have known her since the begining of year 8 (now in year 10) and i can trust her with anything! Well anyway after somethings i cnt really tell her anything anymore because im scared that i have already put her through enough and i dont want her to go away from me. How can i start to trust her enough again? i really need someone i know to talk to atm and it cant be my paarents. for a couple of reasons.

Thing 3 (the couple of reasons) - I know and i think that everyone else in the road knows that my parents dont really get along that well, they are bickering and fighting all the time. I really hate it. It brings me down so much and i really cant deal with it. I think that it is all over money, things are tough for everyone atm but it dosnt really show in my community as many people i know and most of my friends are 'comfortable' with money, so they can really feel the resision. Any way does anyone know how to deal with my parents bickering all the time?

Well anyways sorry for the rant but if anyone can help with anything then please do :) x
Thanks xx

[Cloud]

Thing 1- dont expect to get invited places
if you wanna do stuff with your mates then you arrange it
invite them over or phone em up and ask if they wanna go town or something
usually works

thing 2- Now you said you dont want her to leave but you never said that she showed she cant be trusted?? or did i read that wrong. anyway if she hasnt dont anything to show she cant be trusted then the only thing stopping yo from trsting her is yourself. just make her understand that you need her and how much it means to you to have someone to talk to like her.

thing 3- why not jsut tell them how much its getting to you? might work you never know
or if that doesnt work jsut fight back and make em feel really crappy for making you have to put up with their fighting thats would be my plan but its not really advised

[Amyxoxo]

Thing 1- dont expect to get invited places
if you wanna do stuff with your mates then you arrange it
invite them over or phone em up and ask if they wanna go town or something
usually works

thing 2- Now you said you dont want her to leave but you never said that she showed she cant be trusted?? or did i read that wrong. anyway if she hasnt dont anything to show she cant be trusted then the only thing stopping yo from trsting her is yourself. just make her understand that you need her and how much it means to you to have someone to talk to like her.

thing 3- why not jsut tell them how much its getting to you? might work you never know
or if that doesnt work jsut fight back and make em feel really crappy for making you have to put up with their fighting thats would be my plan but its not really advised

Thing 1 - Ok then thanks :)

Thing 2 - It is just all me. I just dont want her to feel that im boring and well mony that is why :/

Thing 3 - I could try telling them. Lol i fight back, trust me but they fight about that as well it seems that i cant find a way of getting it through to them so i will try tewlling them! :)

Thank you :) x

[TheTruth]

Lol, Thing 1 & 2 remind me of Cat in the hat, sorry, love that film as lame as some people might find it anywhoOoOo, just wanted to say that even if telling them how you feel about their fighting doesn't work out as well as it could, remember that they are still your parents and they're both tied to you, MeaninggGgGgG that if you want advice you can talk about it with each one individual and make up your own mind on something, it's always best to get opinions from different points of views.

[Darkness]

Thing one- what callum said, but sometimes people just change, and don't act in the same way they did

Thing two- now that's something we can't really help with, we don't know her. But it might be an idea to talk to her about how your feeling about telling her stuff,

Thing three- can't help sorry,