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StarBoy
October 29th, 2009, 09:47 AM
I am a guy. There is one of my friends who is openly bi. I think he is really hot. And I have very strong feelings for him, and whenever I see him I just picture us hooking up. I have slept in the same bed as him and he showed clear signs that he wanted me but I wasn't sure. He is fine being naked around me and has said things to me that turn me on. It is much much more than a crush....please give me some advice that I could do or say to him to let him no how I feel. :wub:

Ender
October 29th, 2009, 11:42 AM
ask him out

DareDevil
October 29th, 2009, 06:26 PM
Honestly it doesn't get much simpler than what was said above.

The best way to get someone to like you is to spend good times together. Hanging out and having fun so they equate being with you to something enjoyable.

But really, him liking you is up to him. If he doesn't now and you've known each other for some time, it's not too likely to change. Ask him out, find out what he thinks, and then you can take the next step: either going out or moving on.

Either way it's better than wondering if.

tripolar
October 29th, 2009, 07:08 PM
The easiest and best way to let him know how you feel is you said you've slept in the same bed before and you also said he shows signs that he wants you, the next time your sleeping together welcome is advances this will let him know that you like him too then you can go on from there.

polarbear
October 30th, 2009, 12:21 AM
i dont see whats wrong with a good old kiss its clear, simple, and fun. btw still love the pic haha

TheTruth
October 30th, 2009, 03:35 PM
Well you said it yourself "he showed clear signs that he wanted me" and if your arent sure, which you said you weren't, then find out! take advice from the others here, ya know get talking with him hang out with him and eventually when your strong enough ask him about his feelings, see if he has any for you.

bizarre
October 31st, 2009, 01:13 AM
aww thats how i felt with julian i asked him out and it worked (even though im 14 and he is 16)

OstrichAficionado
November 30th, 2009, 04:16 AM
With that story of yours, I wish I had a bi friend too :P