Help!!! I'm confused.( this time it is about my sexuallity)

[Don3]

I'm 13 and as you may already know i have been confused about my sexuality but the thing is that lately I've been looking more at guys but i still can't get "up" but i do think they are attractive but not as in the way i look at girls but the thing is that now my sex drive is lower than before and idk :confused: why so could it be because of the fact i find guys kinda attractive.

[VeniVidiVici]

during puberty and adulthood for that matter, you sexuality will constantly change. Don't worry bud. you will never STAY straight and your will never STAY gay, your sexual orientation will move back and forth depending on your hormones, your age, the stimuluation being presented and what mood your in.

give it time, it will be confusing, but thats life right?

[nick]

To be honest you're a bit young to be worrying about your sex drive. Your hormone levels will be fluctuating and thats what will make you more or less horny at different times, nothing to do with whether you find guys attractive.

From what you've said above you sound more straight than bi to me, but just give it more time, its perfectly reasonable to think someone looks good without that meaning you necessarily want to have sex with them.

[greg95]

I'm 13 and as you may already know i have been confused about my sexuality but the thing is that lately I've been looking more at guys but i still can't get "up" but i do think they are attractive but not as in the way i look at girls but the thing is that now my sex drive is lower than before and idk:confused: why so could it be because of the fact i find guys kinda attractive.

hey, you have perfectly the right to like girls and find boys pretty or attractive !

[Billy15]

Hey Don3, I understand completely but I think I might be the opposite. I find some girls attractive (real attractive) but I only get up, when I think about boys. I know it messes with your head because it does mine and our thoughts are not really something we can just blurt out to our friends but the way I figure, we're both young, we're still growing and changing, so who knows what we'll end up being but either way, we're still good people and we'll end up making it all work out. I know that probably didn't help much but I'm pretty much where you are and I'm two years older.

[mzakpitt]

Billy15....i'm the same...i find girls attractive but like i only get an erection when i see boys....i dont know what to do

[joey95]

woah k first of all have u seen a gay porno maybe thats wat u need to watch to get "up" and actually watch it happen then wen u see hot guys in public u can imagine its u two having sex.!

[Don3]

I have seen gay porn but nothings happens "down there" but when i watch straight or lesbian porn i can get up.