View Full Version : Am I bi????? and what should I do?
StarBoy
October 27th, 2009, 08:55 PM
I am a guy. There is one of my friends who is openly bi. I think he is really hot. :wub: And I have very strong feelings for him, and whenever I see him I just picture us hooking up. I have slept in the same bed as him and he showed clear signs that he wanted me but I wasn't sure. All I want to do in the entire world is get with him but I still have feelings for girls.......Please help:)
tripolar
October 27th, 2009, 09:15 PM
Sense you like him and you think he likes you go for it. Remember you can still like girls too.
nick
October 28th, 2009, 05:07 AM
It does sound as if you may be bi, in which case experimenting or having a relationship with your male friend doesnt stop you from still liking girls and having str8 relationships in the future.
Severus Snape
October 28th, 2009, 05:52 AM
Cool, it sounds like you're bi. Don't be too tossed up about it, just learn the nuances of your attractions to each sex and work within the limits. My best piece of advice to you would be don't try to convince yourself you are straight later on down the road if things become difficult. You are what you are and there really isn't a way to change your orientation.
Good luck with the crush!
Leprachaun
October 28th, 2009, 07:51 AM
you should go for it, see how things go.
VeniVidiVici
October 29th, 2009, 12:47 AM
the only way to figure things out is to tell him... worked for me... you wouldnt believe the doors (and legs) that open up when u come out to a close friend...
good luck!
btw: i am bi, i have a gf and i still like girls... thats the point of being bi, the best of both worlds
polarbear
October 29th, 2009, 01:10 AM
sounds like your bi and i LOVE THE PIC
bestie_mate
October 29th, 2009, 11:55 AM
You are clearly bisexual my friends and there's nothing wrong sa the song goes follow your heart!!:yeah:
bestie_mate
October 29th, 2009, 11:55 AM
You are clearly bisexual my friend and there's nothing wrong as the song goes follow your heart!!:yeah:
Yesterdays Hero
October 29th, 2009, 05:18 PM
I say go for it, you like him, you sense he likes you... go for it.
thepieman
October 31st, 2009, 02:24 PM
First, it sounds like you're bi and that's no bad thing - so don't worry.
Secondly, talk to the guy. Don't rush to anything hasty, bring the topic up in conversation first. Talk for a while, and if things are looking good, why not ask him if he wants to go further? Just take it easily at first, and good luck.
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