I'm losing them

[Stewart]

Okay, I just moved to my school last year and I was friends with almost everyone at the end of the year. Sure, there's always going to be a few people that don't like you but that's fair.

Well, this year, I've been losing friends. I lost 4 of them because I don't think before I speak:(

I'm starting to feel like nobody likes me... I have some really good friends but I still feel like I don't have any...

What's wrong with me?
What should I do?

[Amyxoxo]

Well, start of all you know what is causing it, you dont think before you speak. Well...do think!
There is nothing wrong with you and you shouldnt think that. If you just start to talk to people again, build everything up things may get better :)
Hope i helped :) xx

[overcome.]

During an argument perhaps, it can be normal to say things that you don't particularly mean or don't mean in a certain way. Even if it's not during an argument, depending on somebody's mood they can say things they wouldn't normally say under different circumstances. Everybody takes things personally, even if they say they don't and they pretend to shrug it off - I believe that they do keep it with them.

So let's not focus on the past, you can't change that. You can only strongly think about the present and deal with the future when it comes your way. Think about doing your absolute best about keeping certain thoughts or feelings to yourself or expressing them in different ways. Even not expressing negativity at all towards them. This was meant to happen and you were meant to learn from this. Life is full of lessons.

I'd suggest trying to reach out to those who you've lost as friends, but that can get mixed results. People are quick to throw things right back in your face. Although wouldn't it be worth apologising even if you started speaking to just one of the 4 of them again regularly?

Some mixed things I've written but I was trying to think of things from all angles. I hope I was at least a slight help towards everything.