View Full Version : I fucking hate my mum!
sarah newman
October 27th, 2009, 11:11 AM
I hate her. I hate her, hate her, hate her. I dont want anything to do with her, i dont want anything from her, i dont want to see her, its bad enough living in the same house as her.
MUMS the one who makes me feel depressed, angry, annoyed, dead inside, she was one of the reasons which led me to self harm. Sorry, i had to get that out! I just dont know what to do anymore. I just want my life to end now...
Harley Quinn
October 27th, 2009, 11:18 AM
I hate her. I hate her, hate her, hate her. I dont want anything to do with her, i dont want anything from her, i dont want to see her, its bad enough living in the same house as her.
MUMS the one who makes me feel depressed, angry, annoyed, dead inside, she was one of the reasons which led me to self harm. Sorry, i had to get that out! I just dont know what to do anymore. I just want my life to end now...
Ending your life won't solve anything, suicide is the cowards way out, fighting and solving your problem's now that's the thing that takes more courage and more strength, which you have, fight, don't be the coward that falls at every hurdle, get up and keep fighting, because i time you will walk free.
NightFighter
October 27th, 2009, 12:15 PM
Tough, you need your mum.
Is this just another teenage tantrum about hating parents because of rules and so on?
I cannot believe that you started self harming because of one persons actions. Theres always a variety of reasons why people start self harming. Maybe she contributed to the fact that you started but no one has that much of an effect on your life.
You mum loves you and only wants the best for you. Make an attempt to get along with her. Speak to her about this. She must feel awful knowing your relationship is so bad and im sure she will do her best to change it. Nothing will improve if you just rant about it to us. You have to work.
sarah newman
October 27th, 2009, 12:21 PM
No, its not another teenage tantrum. I've given my mum tons of chances for us to get along. I also get bullied which is another reason why i self harmed. My mum has a funny way of showing she loves me.
Harley Quinn
October 27th, 2009, 01:49 PM
No, its not another teenage tantrum. I've given my mum tons of chances for us to get along. I also get bullied which is another reason why i self harmed. My mum has a funny way of showing she loves me.
Have you ever thought that she might have a lot on her plate/mind that she can't really show you the love and attention you need? In a way, you are moaning a bit to much, but to be honest that's not my place to say...Talk to your mum, ask her if she is okay herself. The chances are she is worried about you and she just can't show it.
Lily of the Valley
October 27th, 2009, 02:35 PM
I hate her. I hate her, hate her, hate her. I dont want anything to do with her, i dont want anything from her, i dont want to see her, its bad enough living in the same house as her.
MUMS the one who makes me feel depressed, angry, annoyed, dead inside, she was one of the reasons which led me to self harm. Sorry, i had to get that out! I just dont know what to do anymore. I just want my life to end now...http://i722.photobucket.com/albums/ww225/K-VonDahl/Expressions/HAPPY/1232407779034.jpg
When you actually want to ask for help, come back and try again.I cannot believe that you started self harming because of one persons actions. Theres always a variety of reasons why people start self harming.Wtf? Where is that little tidbit coming from? There's no reason to believe there has to be more than one reason to self-harm.
I started cutting because of my mom when I was 12 or 13. There were other things going on, but even if there hadn't been, I still would've.
~Maggot
sarah newman
October 28th, 2009, 03:06 AM
Yeah I want help
Harley Quinn
October 28th, 2009, 03:11 AM
Yeah I want help
If you want the help, you need to tell us everything, or at least parts of way you hate your mum, or anything for that matter, i wont be the one that calls you a twat......I'll try my best to help you :)
sarah newman
October 31st, 2009, 04:21 AM
Ok, shes soooo over protective, she always checks up on me as she saw my cuts on my arms, she drives me insane, well, the whole family drives me insane most of the time, she always frows stuff back in my face when we have arguements that i've done in the past, she has a funny way of showing she loves me, she always trys to run my life, i try my best to get on with her, i give her tons of chances but she always thinks she can get around me easily.
Harley Quinn
October 31st, 2009, 05:21 AM
Ok, shes soooo over protective, she always checks up on me as she saw my cuts on my arms, she drives me insane, well, the whole family drives me insane most of the time, she always frows stuff back in my face when we have arguements that i've done in the past, she has a funny way of showing she loves me, she always trys to run my life, i try my best to get on with her, i give her tons of chances but she always thinks she can get around me easily.
She is doing this because she loves you, I mean, mums are supposed to be protective because we are still their little girls, no matter what you do they will always be in our life until we are old enough to leave then. You don't just give your mum chances, you have to see the bigger picture. When an mum sees self harm, they get scared an overprotective this is because they don't want you self harming, sure right now you think she's a bitch but in reality she caring, so to be really honest, you need to stop complaining and start appricating what she doing and learn that yeah maybe she has a funny way of showing she loves you. Find out why she treats you like this.
sarah newman
October 31st, 2009, 05:45 AM
Fine, I'll stop complaining.
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