Nerves and...

[Strength]

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[Kahn]

Well try to get comfrotable with her. I mean talk to her more and flirt with her. It doesn't mean you need viagra but if you want to go further then you might have to use it once or twice if it doesn't work like that...

[XxHaViiK]

Foreplay. Believe me, my first time I was really nervous. Just lay back and make out for as long as you two want until your comfortable.

[Strength]

I'm really worried now, I can't even get it up on my own! I looked at porn and nothing!

I mean what the real problem here is I have no experience what so ever and i dont know i think she wants to give me a hand or head job!? or maybe even just feel me when we're kissing.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Relax, you don't need Viagra.

The fact that you're spazzing out so much is the problem. Because you're worrying so much about not being able to get it up, you may find yourself unable to get it up. (Funny how that works, eh?) Sexual arousal is as much a mental thing as a physical thing. If your mental state is one of nervousness and anxiety, things are going to be much harder for you. Any problems you're having when you're on your own are of your own doing--it's all in your head. Relax, and let things do what they do naturally. Don't overthink it.

Should you have a problem when you're with your girlfriend, just explain the situation, tell her you're just nervous. She should understand.

Just take things slow, and don't worry about it. There's no rush, so there's no need to freak out.