View Full Version : I think I might be gay
Billy15
October 25th, 2009, 10:19 PM
As you probably already know, I am new here so I don't really know anybody yet and I'm really not even sure what this forum is for or who it includes but I'm 15 and I think I might be gay and I'd really like to talk about it, ask questions but I don't know how members here feel about gay so before I start blabbing all over the place lol, I guess I'd like to know how members here feel about gay? Am I the only gay teen here? To be honest, I joined to try and find some answers.
Kevwee
October 25th, 2009, 10:23 PM
Hey, you sound like me when i first joined VT a few months ago. I had questions and iI myself was wondering if I was gay. When I joined I talked to some other members on here and asked questions on how i was feeling and situations. But, many have told me that I was just curious since I am at that age that I just want to know what it is like. So I guess that you might not really know if you are gay unless you are older and stuff. I hope that helped you a little bit.
If you wanna talk or something just pm me.
XxHaViiK
October 25th, 2009, 10:31 PM
There are many different orientated people on VT. I'm straight, but I see people of other orientations quite frequently.
BlackBetty
October 25th, 2009, 10:50 PM
Vt is a good ace to start. You may just be curious(like i am) and not be full blown gay. If you ever need anything please feel freeto PM me.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
October 25th, 2009, 10:50 PM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality
Lily of the Valley
October 25th, 2009, 11:37 PM
Well, what makes you think you might gay?
~Maggot
finallygother
October 25th, 2009, 11:50 PM
It's okay to be gay. You're still the same person you've always been except you like the same gender. It's a sin if you're Christian but if you ask god for forgiveness you'll be forgiven. Being gay is who you are and you can't change that.
nick
October 26th, 2009, 04:17 AM
As you probably already know, I am new here so I don't really know anybody yet and I'm really not even sure what this forum is for or who it includes but I'm 15 and I think I might be gay and I'd really like to talk about it, ask questions but I don't know how members here feel about gay so before I start blabbing all over the place lol, I guess I'd like to know how members here feel about gay? Am I the only gay teen here? To be honest, I joined to try and find some answers.
There are very many gays and bis on vt, I'm bi myself, and you wont come across much prejudice on here. You should feel free to post openly about how you feel and what it is that makes you think you might be gay, you will receive lots of helpful answers and advice.
Feel free to pm me if you want to talk.
Billy15
October 26th, 2009, 02:39 PM
WOW thanks guys cause now I feel a little better. I'm new here and just spouting out that I might be gay made me a little nervous but I figured (from the posts) that everyone was cool here and maybe people would understand.
Where we live, being gay is not cool and it's something that you keep to yourself and even though I don't want to like yell it out or anything lol, it's still nice to have people to talk to who understand.
I think I'm gay because I have no interest in girls and yet I think boys are awesome. I have lots of female friends but just don't see them in a sexual way at all but certain boys
I find beautiful and lately, that's all I have been thinking about. Not so much doing it or anything like that but maybe loving someone, having that closeness and then seeing where it goes from there.
Anyways, thank you for all your cool replies, I think I will like it here.
ericboi
October 26th, 2009, 02:41 PM
Maybe if you make friends with somebody from school who you're pretty sure is gay and talk to him he might know stuff about being gay that he can tell you. :yes:
Suicune
October 26th, 2009, 02:52 PM
Where we live, being gay is not cool and it's something that you keep to yourself and even though I don't want to like yell it out or anything lol, it's still nice to have people to talk to who understand.
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Anyways, thank you for all your cool replies, I think I will like it here.
You'll LOVE it here. Yeah almost everybody's understanding and REAL friendly!
And yeah unfortunately most towns are filled with prejudice.
And once again welcome to Virtual Teen! :yes:
that kid
October 26th, 2009, 11:01 PM
A LOT of people here are gay, bi, curious, etc. and many are willing to help. I know what you mean about being afraid to talk about it with anyone. The only people who know I'm curious are my parents by accident, but if they didn't find out themselves they wouldn't know. The point is you're not alone and people here are willing to help.
CaptainObvious
October 26th, 2009, 11:01 PM
WOW thanks guys cause now I feel a little better. I'm new here and just spouting out that I might be gay made me a little nervous but I figured (from the posts) that everyone was cool here and maybe people would understand.
Where we live, being gay is not cool and it's something that you keep to yourself and even though I don't want to like yell it out or anything lol, it's still nice to have people to talk to who understand.
I think I'm gay because I have no interest in girls and yet I think boys are awesome. I have lots of female friends but just don't see them in a sexual way at all but certain boys
I find beautiful and lately, that's all I have been thinking about. Not so much doing it or anything like that but maybe loving someone, having that closeness and then seeing where it goes from there.
Anyways, thank you for all your cool replies, I think I will like it here.
I feel for you bud, it's hard being gay where people don't accept it. Just remember that there's nothing wrong with it, and that's true no matter what anyone says.
Don't hesitate to ask for help here, there's lots of people who are willing to help.
Nobody can make you feel bad without your consent.
tyler27846
October 26th, 2009, 11:09 PM
Its ok if you are everyone is is very accepting you cant help who your are and if you ever need to talk just pm or im me
bowlheadhere
October 27th, 2009, 02:37 AM
This is the place for you! Talking to people on VT is like talking to a super older brother. There are a lot of people here who are here to give advice to other people from their personal experience. Like a brother, you must be able to filter out some information and not take everything to heart... but we all (well, most of us) mean the best for the others which we help.
VT is full of all walks of life. Want to talk to gay people, straight people, bisexual people, transsexual people, curious people? You can basically talk to anyone on here... there are so many different types of people wanting to answer your questions and help you out.
You are definitely not the only gay person on here. You must remember that 1 out of 10 people are gay or bisexual.
Anyways, welcome to VT!
Maxxy
October 27th, 2009, 03:06 AM
Welcome to VT, I joined up 6 months ago with the same questions and since being here I've made some new friends. As you can see everyone is accepted regardless of their orientation. If you ever need to talk about just PM anyone or post some questions
mustang
October 27th, 2009, 06:59 AM
there is a lot of peope nere that r gay or bi i am gay. there wont be anyone on here that will take the piss or anything because there is serious conciquensis for stuff like that
Aless1225
October 27th, 2009, 07:20 AM
No big dude I totally feel the same way it's strange feeling
TheKingDavis
November 14th, 2009, 10:18 PM
but certain boys
I find beautiful and lately, that's all I have been thinking about.
Anyways, thank you for all your cool replies, I think I will like it here.
This is really sweet and mature of you, im glad its not all about sex
Billy15
November 14th, 2009, 10:55 PM
you guys are way cool and i like it here a lot. I am meeting some cool members and have had a bunch of friend requests so that lets me know that I'm not alone and what i said didn't really shock anyone which made me feel better.
No I'm not all about sex and stuff like that but i dream about meeting someone like me who is willing to talk and is looking for more then just sex. Sex is cool and all i guess but loving someone and being loved is really what i hope for someday.
Do you think there are other guys like that and is that an immature expectation? I figure I'm not sure about myself yet (just confused) so why jump into something until I'm sure and if I fell in love with someone then just go with what feels natural. Am I wrong to feel that way?
Oh yeah thanks for the cool replies and friendships, i never expected that
nick
November 15th, 2009, 04:28 AM
I'm not all about sex and stuff like that but i dream about meeting someone like me who is willing to talk and is looking for more then just sex. Sex is cool and all i guess but loving someone and being loved is really what i hope for someday.
Do you think there are other guys like that and is that an immature expectation?
Of course there are other guys like that, its what we all are longing for really.
I figure I'm not sure about myself yet (just confused) so why jump into something until I'm sure and if I fell in love with someone then just go with what feels natural. Am I wrong to feel that way?
Absolutely right to feel that way. Just stay true to yourself and be happy.
sjnp95
November 15th, 2009, 05:54 PM
you guys are way cool and i like it here a lot. I am meeting some cool members and have had a bunch of friend requests so that lets me know that I'm not alone and what i said didn't really shock anyone which made me feel better.
No I'm not all about sex and stuff like that but i dream about meeting someone like me who is willing to talk and is looking for more then just sex. Sex is cool and all i guess but loving someone and being loved is really what i hope for someday.
Do you think there are other guys like that and is that an immature expectation? I figure I'm not sure about myself yet (just confused) so why jump into something until I'm sure and if I fell in love with someone then just go with what feels natural. Am I wrong to feel that way?
Oh yeah thanks for the cool replies and friendships, i never expected that
Its great that you joined VT this a place to ask questions and get answers. If you still have questions feel free to PM me I know a few guys like you in my old town who were gay but the town does not accept them. But there is nothing wrong being gayu
drewlink99
November 15th, 2009, 07:23 PM
It is good to ask these things, to get answers, and things like that.
I'm gay too, and I'm not afraid to ask or tell! But, it is good that sooo many people here are okay with it!
You can't tell people where you live? I'm out where I live, even my mom knows, it depends who you tell...
sjnp95
November 15th, 2009, 09:24 PM
I'm straight but being gay is fine. But you have to becareful who you tell. Where I live if your gay you will be so socially ruined you'd have leave town.
Fourth Dimension
November 16th, 2009, 01:33 PM
Everyone Is Very Accepting Here Im Bi And I Had A Hard time Figureing That Out Althogh Im Thinking Im Gay Not 100% Sure Any ?s Or Probs Or Just Wanna Chat PM Me
Lil D
December 29th, 2009, 09:21 AM
no,you`re not the only gay teen on here(but its not me lol)
Nelson
December 29th, 2009, 10:06 AM
When i joined, i didnt tell anyone i was bi, but after reading and speaking to people it helped me decide and tell people
If you want to talk about it, just PM me:)
AllThatIsLeft
December 29th, 2009, 12:38 PM
:locked: It's over a month old kids.
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