View Full Version : Ugh, this is tearing me apart!
Firestone
October 25th, 2009, 07:43 PM
well, I went through some tough times in the summer and spring. My best friend was ignoring and excluding me with his other friends and I didn't recognize it until the summer where we got into a big fight on facebook. Basically, he had no reason for what he was doing. I literally still can't get over it! Even though nothing's happened recently I can't let go of this and I need major closure, please help. :confused:
Hatsune Miku
October 25th, 2009, 08:15 PM
Same thing happened to me. Had a really good friend, then he started hanging out with other people and stabbed me in the back (Not Literally) Just move on. If he was actually you're best friend he would of stuck by you're side. You'll meet other people, so don't worry. You'll find another best friend, hopefully one that will stick with you forever
Firestone
October 25th, 2009, 08:27 PM
That's what I've been trying to tell myself but for some reason, I can't let go of it.
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Hatsune Miku
October 25th, 2009, 08:29 PM
Friendships tend to change as you get older and sometimes you have no choice other than to change with them. Its hard i know.
its time for you to move on and find other friends. But you deserve to know why he excluded you like that, so ask what the problem is. If he tells you theres no reason, dont take it as an answer. tell him you want to know the truth
Kahn
October 25th, 2009, 09:51 PM
So many kids have this happen. The best closure for your situation to me i just telling him straight up how you feel. Thats what I did to my best friend a few summers ago and he respected me until, for personal reasons, we stopped talking to each other. Just confront him and if he truly cares about you and your well being he will be willing to talk about it.
-Adam
Firestone
October 25th, 2009, 10:00 PM
Well, I can't really do that. We have literally not spoken to eachother or anything, because they were cyber-bullying me on facebook.
Kahn
October 26th, 2009, 07:54 AM
Was it him; or them?
Firestone
October 26th, 2009, 06:48 PM
him and them.
alex95
October 30th, 2009, 08:00 PM
your anooying him maybe think of what your saying before you say it my friend at school anooys me to death because he doesnt thing im as strong brave or any thing he can do so i got mad at him maybe its something your saying because my friend was smaller than me i had to prove to him i had to hurt him as in fight lol his not the same kid you new once you get older you change i use to take anything from anyone when i was younger i dont take anything anymore like if someone ask me for something and i give them his like take control alex take control your not the same kid from elementary school i had to tell him sdfu i know im not. ur still childish and never change and he is he hasn't changed one bit from elementary school he still looks like a kid and acts like one.
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