Not enough!

[TheTruth]

Okay so i'm a straight guy as bent as i may look (that was about posture not stereotyping gays :) Anyway the point is although im straight im very curious, and by curious i mean i wouldn't mind having sex with a guy but thats about it, i wouldn't want a relationship or anything with a guy because it would seem weird to me. My point is is that Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual just dow seem to cover it. Yes i call myself straight because i dont have any emotional feelings towards guys except the natural curiosity ones so What The Hell Am I? Straight with a hint of gay? :mad: Arr it really bugs me because i can't find some peace within myself because i want to let people know i wouldn't mind trying out things but if i were to say that it would more than likely class me as gay even though i dont actually have emotions for guys. Does anyone see my point? Does anyone know what i am? Apart from straight?

[nick]

I know what you are - confused.

Many people would class you as curious, to be honest it seems a little bit more than that to me. You may be bi but leaning towards the straight. So if (as I believe it always is) you were to see sexuality as a sliding scale rather than fixed points, maybe you'd be 75% straight.

Listen, why worry so much about it? Take what comes, its not a choice really. If you are confused then give it more time, and just stay cool.

[shikachunin]

Many teenagers are just confused, like you are. Like JustNick sdsaid, your're curious. But i have heard that nobody is FULLY 100% straight, and nobody is FULLY 100% gay... Give it some time, and your orientation will make itself clear

[TheTruth]

What? I'm not confused. I accept that i like girls and i accept the fact i would like to experiment with males. What im asking is what does it make me. Because to be Bi you have to have feelings towards both sex's, To be straight, you have to have feelings towards females, and to be gay the opposite. But i only have feelings towards Females and curiosity towards males NOT FEELINGS so therefore that would make me straight but straight just classes me as girls only so what the hell do i call myself?

Sorry but i just can not rest going by.. Stereotypes I.e. gay, lesbian, bi.
And im defining what it means to be gay, straight or Bi by what ive read on these forums like the teen sexuality forums.

[nick]

OK, well sorry if I said confused and you dont agree with that.

I dont accept that the accepted definitions for gay/straight/bi are the only possibilities or that it is as clear cut as that. What is curious? Now a guy being curious to the point of wanting to look at other guys and compare sizes is one thing, whereas a guy being curious to the point of wanting (or being willing to) try sex with another guy is, in my opinion, something different.

I know most people think the emotional attachement is the decider, but I dont really think you can call yourself totally straight if you are in anyway interested in the idea of having sex with another guy.

[TheTruth]

Okay, i see your point. Guess im the kinda guy to put it down to emotional feelings then. And i didnt mean to sound like i was biting your head off lol. :D