is something wrong?

[joshua305]

okay so i feel like something is wrong with me..
im 15 years old and i dont masturbate..
ive tried before but i just never cum, and after 5-10 minutes i dont feel like im close to cumming so i just get discouraged and stop.
i have a girlfriend and about a month ago i got my first handjob from her.
she hates giving them cause she thinks its pointless since guys can do it themselves, but didnt wanna blow me cause we hadnt been dating that long.
so she was going for like 5 minutes and i never came.
so a couple days ago she gave me my first blowjob and it was incredible. she was amazing at it and it felt so good. she was going for like 20 minutes straight and i felt like i should have came by then but i didnt.
so pretty much my problem is the only time ive ever cum is when i have a wet dream. at first i thought it was because handjobs just didnt turn me on too much, but when i got a blowjob it was incredible and i felt i shouldhave came.
does anybody else experience this?
maybe my girlfriend didnt go long enough?
help anybody?

[alex95]

i would but i cant tell you a technique that makes me cum alot its not allowed...

[TheKingDavis]

I know a guy, that was like that.

He could last for an hour getting a BJ, there isnt anything wrong with you, you are just able to last longer than most people.

As a matter of fact, the guy i know, he likes getting bjs, but he wont ever come, and during sex it will take him a while, but he lasts a long long time.

[joshua305]

yeah i just feel bad
i dont want my girlfriend to feel like she cant please me
and i dont want her to get discouraged
is there anything i can do to speed it up?

[Suicune]

im 15 years old and i dont masturbate..
help anybody?
MADNESS! Well anyway...
is there anything i can do to speed it up?
Unfortunately no, you just have to wait for your body to develop more.
Hope I helped! :)

[ahmann7]

eyou will make some girl very happy someday lasting that long!

[Giles]

eyou will make some girl very happy someday lasting that long!

Yeah, it's not exactly good for him though...

Theres no way(tht I know of)to make yourself orgasm faster. I would suggest telling your girlfriend about your problem, maybe ask her to take some time to see if you actually CAN orgasm...

[XxHaViiK]

There's not really any way to speed it up. You just last longer then most people to reach orgasm. When you first have sex, consider it a gift. Females can have multiple orgasms, so you can keep giving her them if you do everything right. Eventually you will reach orgasm, it just takes a while.

[BlackBetty]

You are exactly what a girl wants. Someone that lasts just as long as she does. Some people just take longer. I dont think your girl friend went long enough. Just because 20 minutes went by dont mean to stop. Just try again and use the advice we are giving you.

[impact_75]

Well not to get into detail, but while j/o'f just keep thinkin of what ur imagining:yes: Always gets me through:)

[IAMWILL]

If your not excited about any of it, it'll take longer.
A lot of it's mental, so just try to be excited about it and it will help you.

[nick]

I can never understand why people dont read what's actually been said. You have said that you cum in wet dreams, so saying you're just not old/mature enough is bollucks.

I dont have any trouble cumming from masturbating but no girl has ever (yet) managed to make me cum from a blowjob. I love the feeling of a blowjob and, like you, feel as if I really want to cum and am nearly there, but it just doesnt happen. I dont think its so unusual actually.

I dont know what to suggest to help you with the hand jobs though, that is unusual I would think. Have you tried using a proper lube, the feeling from that is pretty amzing to me.

[savethehostages]

when I can't cum I think of someone I know having sex with me, not a stranger, it really helps

[pontiacdriver]

okay so i feel like something is wrong with me..
im 15 years old and i dont masturbate..
ive tried before but i just never cum, and after 5-10 minutes i dont feel like im close to cumming so i just get discouraged and stop.
i have a girlfriend and about a month ago i got my first handjob from her.
she hates giving them cause she thinks its pointless since guys can do it themselves, but didnt wanna blow me cause we hadnt been dating that long.
so she was going for like 5 minutes and i never came.
so a couple days ago she gave me my first blowjob and it was incredible. she was amazing at it and it felt so good. she was going for like 20 minutes straight and i felt like i should have came by then but i didnt.
so pretty much my problem is the only time ive ever cum is when i have a wet dream. at first i thought it was because handjobs just didnt turn me on too much, but when i got a blowjob it was incredible and i felt i shouldhave came.
does anybody else experience this?
maybe my girlfriend didnt go long enough?
help anybody?

My thinking is that if you have never masturbated before, then that is where you should start. My guess is that if you can learn how to masturbate and make yourself orgasm while you are awake, then you can solve your problem with getting aroused when others give you a hand job or a blow job. It is going to be hard to ejaculate when someone else stimulates your genitals when you cannot do so yourself.

My suggestion is to visit www.jackinworld.com and work through some of the techniques on there. Once you learn how to masturbate to ejaculation, then you should be all right with your girlfriend.

Finally, just make sure you are totally honest with your girlfriend about your not masturbating and not having ejaculated on your own awake as that will help her understand your issue.