View Full Version : am i gay?
Lifepulses
October 25th, 2009, 08:30 AM
in my entire life i've never really liked anyone. i liked a girl when i was in like pre school. but now i'm 15 and i feel like i haven't reallly crushed on anyone at all. atleast any girls.
i tend to have obsessions and stalk people because i want them to be my friend. but i dont know if thats just another way of saying " a crush".
and usually these people i obsess over are guys. it might be because i've never really had a guy friend, i usually have friends who are girls. because everyone says i act " gay".
so........ yeah.
and i dont know if its because, i just think that the feeling of a crush is REALLY intense, and i've never had a REALLY intense feelign for someone.
nick
October 25th, 2009, 12:52 PM
Other people thinking you "act gay" doesnt make you gay. I don't think from what you've said above that you can really tell, you will have to wait until you are sure that you really have feelings for someone. Just stay cool and don't let it worry you. You cant force yourself to fall in love, it just happens.
Harley Quinn
October 25th, 2009, 01:01 PM
What Nick said, but also, don't be so quick to label yourself, enjoy your live and then figure out your sexuallity, just because you act gay, that does not make you gay, sure you might think of yourself as gay just because others think you are, but the truth is, only you can tell, get on with the important things in life before putting a mark on yourself!
ryanmichael
November 4th, 2009, 12:11 AM
im bi and people alwats told me i was gay coincedently i am bi but figure it out ur self its actually easier than u think look at female porn then at gay porn and see wat u like
kdddd
November 4th, 2009, 09:46 AM
well porn dose not nessicarily tell you becuae lots of stright guys watch gay porn
Wooders
November 4th, 2009, 01:10 PM
just cuz peple fink u r. dosent make u gay!
drewlink99
November 4th, 2009, 03:35 PM
Do you just want a guy friend? Do you have a father figure?
It could be that you just want some male bonding.
But if you are gay, it's no big deal! Just don't be shaped by what other people say!
cherry_boi
November 4th, 2009, 03:44 PM
umm u might be gay, lol u sound like ur the way i used to act and i'm bi
lol dunno, lots of people don't have crushes or fall in love till they are like 16, 17, 18 or older so no worries u'll figure it out wen the time comes, lol believe me u'll kno, until then just go with the flow
sam i am
November 4th, 2009, 03:53 PM
To be be gay u have to have emotional and physical feeling for a guy. U don't have to believe people or listen to them when they say u sound "gay". Only u know who u are don't let them label u. I don't think ur gay i just think ur looking for a good guy friend u never had.
The Joker
November 4th, 2009, 07:38 PM
That sounds really ridiculous. Gay guys like men.
If you're not interested in anybody, then you're not gay.
It's not that hard to understand.
Patchy
November 4th, 2009, 07:41 PM
Moved to teen sexuality.
wrestlerboy
November 23rd, 2009, 09:28 PM
Am i gay? i am on the wrestling team and ive found myself looking at wrestlers balls in singlets. i also have experimented with a male friend (bj)
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