Cant get over past event, help

[ohio22]

Back in august, I was out with my friend and we were with a few guys who my friend's sister knew. Throughout the night this one guy kept touching me and feeling me up, and I told him to stop and that I had a boyfriend.

As the night went on, he continued to feel me up. It got to the point where he was forcing himself on me and he was overpowering me, i tried to keep telling him I had a boyfriend and it was really bothering me but he wouldnt stop.

It's really bothered me ever since, and sometimes I cant help but to think about the incident when me and my boyfriend are fooling around, because it reminds me of what happened.

When i think about it It just takes over my thoughts and I cant get it out of my head, what can I do to get over it?

Thanks

[Lily of the Valley]

1) Learn to stand up for yourself. If someone's feeling you up and you keep saying no and they're not listening, you don't keep saying no. That's just asking to be taken advantage of. You punch him in the testicles.
2) Tell your boyfriend, if you haven't already.
3) Realise that shit happens and will continue to happen. You need to move on with your life.

~Maggot

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Let your boyfriend know what the problem is. If he hasn't already, he'll start noticing that something's up and it's best to be honest with him about what's going on. You haven't done anything wrong so there's no reason for him to be mad at you. He should understand.

As much as Laura is right that you could have hit the guy or otherwise used more force to get him off of you, you didn't ask him to touch you in the first place so don't feel like this is all your fault. You always have the right to say no, and he didn't listen. In other words, he's a bit of an ass.

Time is going to help with this. It might take a little while for you to really feel like you're over it, but you will move on.

[Suicune]

Yes I agree with the other posters. Learn to stand up for yourself. (Be fierce lol)
Certainly tell your boyfriend about this, he'll understand.

[laurita_21]

tell your boyfrend wat happend if he dosnt already know, and he'll try to concider u more (das dat make sence :S lool )