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Impact13
October 24th, 2009, 10:17 PM
Im 14 and straight and i masturbate with my cuzin regularly and i was just wondering if any one has ever masturbated with their cussin?

Please Help Im curious :yawn:

Suicune
October 24th, 2009, 10:21 PM
Im 14 and straight and i masturbate with my cuzin regularly and i was just wondering if any one has ever masturbated with their cussin?

Please Help Im curious :yawn:

No I have never done that and never will.
However masturbating with family is never a good thing and you need to stop this.

adam1995
October 24th, 2009, 10:33 PM
JMO but if ur just jerking off in the same room with your cousin, i wouldnt call that incest. If yyou were actully messing around with him... like giving him a hand job... well, thats an issue...

Impact13
October 24th, 2009, 10:37 PM
No I have never done that and never will.
However masturbating with family is never a good thing and you need to stop this.
i dont see whats wrong with it me and my cuz masturbate with each other spontaneously and feel completely and 100% confortable... just for a little clarification when we masturbate we hide our penises from each others view (during watching porn)


JMO but if ur just jerking off in the same room with your cousin, i wouldnt call that incest. If yyou were actully messing around with him... like giving him a hand job... well, thats an issue...

Exactly, during watching porn when we are ready to masturbate we turn our bodies and masturbate and tell each other when were done... unlike mford1996 u 1/2 get it

ericboi
October 24th, 2009, 10:37 PM
I wouldn't keep doing that with him because if u and him get mad at each other it would be bad and you'll still see each other at family things.

Suicune
October 24th, 2009, 10:55 PM
I wouldn't keep doing that with him because if u and him get mad at each other it would be bad and you'll still see each other at family things.

Totally agree.

Impact13
October 24th, 2009, 10:59 PM
Totally agree.

I wouldn't keep doing that with him because if u and him get mad at each other it would be bad and you'll still see each other at family things.

I dont :yes:

Darkened-Inferno
October 24th, 2009, 11:02 PM
I dont :yes:

I'd recommend stopping that. Now, if you're not touching each other I wouldn't consider it incest, but it could damage your relationship. If something went wrong between you two, the consequences could be bad. It looks like you don't want to stop judging by the post you made above, but masturbating with a cousin is a very BAD idea.

playboy
October 24th, 2009, 11:35 PM
yo dawg u dont have to stop im 100 % str8 and ive done it with my cousins,brothers and closest friends plenty of times it brung us closer and we all got girls and we even fucked and im 17 ive been jacking since i was 11 with my bro and 3 cousins we learned at the same time and thats what started us doin it together if u want pm me

Impact13
October 24th, 2009, 11:37 PM
yo dawg u dont have to stop im 100 % str8 and ive done it with my cousins,brothers and closest friends plenty of times it brung us closer and we all got girls and we even fucked and im 17 ive been jacking since i was 11 with my bro and 3 cousins we learned at the same time and thats what started us doin it together if u want pm me

ma point exactly thankyou!!!!!

Suicune
October 25th, 2009, 12:07 AM
I'd recommend stopping that. Now, if you're not touching each other I wouldn't consider it incest, but it could damage your relationship. If something went wrong between you two, the consequences could be bad. It looks like you don't want to stop judging by the post you made above, but masturbating with a cousin is a very BAD idea.

Thanks for making it clearer.
I can't stress that enough.

brodie.jay
October 25th, 2009, 02:20 AM
Nar that is weird.

delete.please
October 25th, 2009, 03:17 AM
I don't think it's actually incest, but you still really shouldn't do it. It sounds like something you'll seriously regret in the future.

bos_cool
October 25th, 2009, 04:57 AM
when i was little me n my cuzin were in a sleepin bag together n playiin with each other n stuff. only once though. wasnt weird after thankfully!

Art_dude
October 25th, 2009, 10:29 AM
Hmmmm I wouldn't exactly call jacking off incest....If you had sex with your cousin or gave him oral sex however, that would be incest.
Not that I'm saying people should jack off with their cousins, but I wouldn't say they shouldn't. As long as there is no sexual intimacy I would say it's generally o.k. For example, casually watching a porno together is fine. That is VERY different from sexually interacting (jacking EACHOTHER off, giving oral, or having any penetrative sex).

In fact I taught my younger cousin to masturbate. To me, masturbation (and any sexual content for that matter) is a very awkward and difficult thing to disucss with parents and sometimes friends. Having an older cousin to answer questions in a no judging environment is very healthy.

Aves
October 25th, 2009, 11:35 AM
J/o with your cousin isn't incest, but that doesn't make it right either. I don't care what anyone has said in this thread (especially playboy :/) But masturbation is a personal thing. I don't see the reason for doing it with friends to begin with. I don't think it's right, and I personally think you should stop. In my mind, masturbating with a friend, is just down right weird, if you don't want to have some sort of physical relationship with them.

Suicune
October 25th, 2009, 12:34 PM
J/o with your cousin isn't incest, but that doesn't make it right either. I don't care what anyone has said in this thread (especially playboy :/) But masturbation is a personal thing. I don't see the reason for doing it with friends to begin with. I don't think it's right, and I personally think you should stop. In my mind, masturbating with a friend, is just down right weird, if you don't want to have some sort of physical relationship with them.

Exactly. :yes:

kenshin8106
October 25th, 2009, 12:43 PM
your just curious..but with family its weird..but i mean we all have done sumtin or joke around with our cousins when were little

BigBulge
October 25th, 2009, 06:56 PM
I think its kinda wrong...

karl
October 26th, 2009, 09:47 AM
sex with your cousin isn't incest. Certainly not in U.K.

savethehostages
October 26th, 2009, 11:32 AM
Well, me and my cousin discovered it together when we were about 10/11 and from then on we have always been comfortable masturbating around and with each other, but i wouldn't go further than that or with anyone else because we are only relaxed because of the age we were when it started

QuickQuart
October 26th, 2009, 05:04 PM
okay, well there are obviously two very different and very extreme opinions on this thread. one side says that masturbation is private, and it should be kept to yourself, and especially not shared with family, and it might not be incest, but its still wrong. the other side says that as long as theres no touching, it's fine and can't do any harm. i personally agree with the second one, although if something went wrong, it could damage the relationship.

HOWEVER.

since there are two very different opinions, debating it will just sink everyone further into their original opinion. SO that means that the OP should go with whatever he beleives. and that seems to be the "as long as theres no touching it doesnt really matter" opinion. so, there ya go. your choice.

Boredomino
October 26th, 2009, 05:09 PM
Actually, that's not incest. Cousins are not direct siblings, so you're perfectly allows to masturbate, and even have sex with them. It's perfectly legal even to marry and have kids with cousins - some people still gets the cousin issue mixed up with sibling incest, ie. brothers and sisters.

QuickQuart
October 26th, 2009, 05:11 PM
Actually, that's not incest. Cousins are not direct siblings, so you're perfectly allows to masturbate, and even have sex with them. It's perfectly legal even to marry and have kids with cousins - some people still gets the cousin issue mixed up with sibling incest, ie. brothers and sisters.

But you live in Europe (i just saw the "location" part under your name on the post, i'm not a stalker =P) so i suppose you would know better than I about the rules there.

but here in the US, it is definately illegal to have sex/marry/have kids with cousins. i think second cousins are okay, but i'm not sure.

Rainstorm
October 26th, 2009, 05:14 PM
Like others have said, this is not considered incest.

That doesn't make it alright to do. Even if it seems like a thrill now, and it is so cool to do and you've done it so many times, stop. Many times, it can lead to problems down the road, and they aren't fun to deal with.

myname
October 26th, 2009, 05:16 PM
No, this is not incest. There is nothing legally wrong with this.

Just realize that if you continue to do it, it may make things awkward between you too, and it may even put an embarrassing spin on your relationship.

HOWEVER, that is something that you need to figure out for yourselves. If you find that it brings you closer, it may allow you to let off some of your hormones, and may actually be a worthwhile bonding experience.

Art_dude
October 26th, 2009, 07:00 PM
Totally agree with myname.

Now that we know it isn't considered incest, let's all focus on whether we think it is 'right or wrong'.

Like I said in an earlier post, I wouldn't encourage masturbating with cousins AT ALL. But I wouldn't exactly discourage it either. I wouldn't plan on masturbating with a cousin, but in the situation where my younger cousin was asking questions about the topic, I gave him an honest answer, and HE ASKED for me to show him. Oddly enough it wasn't at all sexual, I was just explaining how to explore your body. It was a one time occurrence, that not only gave him honest answers in a judgefree environment, but also bonded us. It's not like we were all like, "Oh dude this is so hot, omg let's fuck". It was a simple and pragmatic demonstration lol

Giles
October 26th, 2009, 08:15 PM
Ok. I can't remember where the OP was from, but in the UK doing things with cousins is incest, second cousins is fine.

Personally I have done things, touching and masturbating in the same room, our relationship is fine and at "family things" we talk normally, theres no awkwardness. Still I wouldn't recommend doing this, I guess I was lucky the chances of it all going astronomically wrong are very high. I would stop.

Sherkan
October 29th, 2009, 05:36 PM
wen my cuzins come over 2 my house for a weekend me all masturbate its actually fun

tripolar
October 29th, 2009, 05:41 PM
Ok. I can't remember where the OP was from, but in the UK doing things with cousins is incest, second cousins is fine.

Why even get involved with family members, just a suggestion try to do it outside the family.

nick
October 29th, 2009, 05:59 PM
sex with your cousin isn't incest. Certainly not in U.K.

Actually, that's not incest. Cousins are not direct siblings, so you're perfectly allows to masturbate, and even have sex with them. It's perfectly legal even to marry and have kids with cousins - some people still gets the cousin issue mixed up with sibling incest, ie. brothers and sisters.

Ok. I can't remember where the OP was from, but in the UK doing things with cousins is incest, second cousins is fine.


I believe Karl and Boredomino have it right, sex with a cousin would not be regarded as incest in the uk. Marriage of first cousins is common in some of the ethnic communities and is legal.

Immortal
November 2nd, 2009, 08:29 PM
When i was little me and my cousin did everything! and we didnt know what it meant but we wanted to do it, we finally stopped at 10 when he cummed and we thought we had hurt each other

confusedand14
November 2nd, 2009, 11:54 PM
After like 1st cousins, it doesn't matter what you do it's still not considered incest. And jerking with cousins, some find it weird some find it normal. I've done it, probably wouldn't do it again, and yes it could make things weird in the future. But as long as nobody is forcing anybody to do anything they are not comortable with it's not a big issue.

thisqboy4u
November 10th, 2009, 08:43 PM
It's just like doing it with a friend. Not incest.

vic1891
November 23rd, 2009, 03:42 AM
If it's just masturbating than it really isn't incest. I learned to masturbate from my dad and I know it might sound weird or gross but it really wasn't it's not like he had sex with me or touched me or anything he just whipped his out and showed me what I had to do cause I was the oldest boy in my family so I had noone but him to show me and I have told my cousins how to do it and we masturbate in the same room... And it isn't wrong and you don't have to stop if you don't want to it's completly up to you and other people can't tell you if it's wrong or not cause everyone has their own oppinion on the subject

klep
November 23rd, 2009, 07:33 PM
kinda weird

Thrash Bassist
January 6th, 2010, 02:47 AM
As long as you both enjoy it, it is normal ;)

Ultimatum
January 6th, 2010, 05:06 AM
I believe Karl and Boredomino have it right, sex with a cousin would not be regarded as incest in the uk. Marriage of first cousins is common in some of the ethnic communities and is legal.
Agreed, I know of a few cousins that have got married & had kids.

gone
January 6th, 2010, 05:18 AM
I've never done this, but i have heard of it before, as long as you are both happy and comfortable with it I don't see a problem
;)

Gumleaf
January 6th, 2010, 05:47 AM
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