Cant Orgasm

[JaredTehChinima]

im a boy sorry...but its about my GF

weve had sex about 10 times and she cant cumm.
she says it feels really good, but she never actually cumms

she said that when she was little she masturbated and could cumm really easy, but now she cant, and she thinks that is might have messed her up...

so my question is

can masturbating mess up your vagina?

or could it just be that her vagina has to get used to stimulation or what?

(sorry for the weird questions)

[Lily of the Valley]

No, chances are the reason she isn't orgasming is because you're not stimulating her clitoris, which is most likely what she did before. For many girls/women, they need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and unless the guy really knows what he's doing, that's pretty difficult to achieve.

~Maggot

[Jerrys_Baby]

If she had used a vibrator for YEARS, then some nerve damage could've been done to her clitoris. If that has happend (which I doubt) then that could be a reason why. Also, girls take much more time then guys to actually "warm up" and acheive orgasm. She may need more kissing, rubbing, touching, etc. in order to get her more into it. Have her tell you what feels best when you are stimulating her, and then keep doing it. I'm sure if you continue in that spot for a while, then I'm sure she'll cum. Best of luck!

[sarah newman]

What does masturbating mean?

[nick]

I believe that quite a high percentage of girls cant achieve orgasm just from the movement of the penis during intercourse, like Laura/Maggot said above, they need their clitoris to be stimulated. You should give her some other form of attention either before or after you're "done" to make sure she gets there.

[XxHaViiK]

Wow... I didn't know it was really hard for a female to achieve orgasm. I thought it was actually easier for them :P I guess I must be good, because I made my GF have an orgasm, and it was just me :P

@The Original Poster: You should do some foreplay for a while. The time I got my GF to achieve orgasm, we had been making out and just getting really intimate for a little over an hour. So that may work to get her aroused.

[ErykaInspire.]

I'm the same way. I can pretty much guarantee that masturbation has nothing to do with it, I never masturbated when I was younger and i'm not that into it nowadays.
When my boyfriend and I have sex, I can't orgasm with just our body movements.

Stimulating her clitoris deffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffinitely helps(;

Try biting, that puts quite a few girls on edge. Her lip, neck, earlobe (not hard. It bruises easily >.< :P), or inner thighs (also not too hard. Sensitive.).

If all else fails, I have a few techniques that I can discuss in private messaging.
Detail is prohibited in public discussions and I don't quite fancy being vulgar in front of people. :P

[Charleigh]

u need to be completly relaxed and try stimulating your clit more

[BruceWalt]

I agree with Charlie, had the exact same problem with my last girlfriend until my brother told me the key was foreplay and going down. Needless to say it worked like magic.

[itzyogrll]

Exactly. My boyfriend had fingured me about 4 or 5 times and on the 5th is where i actually had my orgasm because he did everything. Stimulated my clit went really fast, and touched me all over. OH IT WORKED. Believe me orgasms are so much better than you'd ever think or dream of. Mm... Lol. <3 Hope i helped. =)

[Kartellmyst]

No, chances are the reason she isn't orgasming is because you're not stimulating her clitoris, which is most likely what she did before. For many girls/women, they need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and unless the guy really knows what he's doing, that's pretty difficult to achieve.

~Maggot


Agreed, Agreed or she could just be lying to make you feel bad...which I stronlgy doubt..:)

[ftrswmr4ncs]

well theres to possibilities, one is she hasnt gone through certain stages of girl life...or your not going to want to hear this, but she could be faking.

[Rebecca L Vaughn]

If you give her long enough she will

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads, this one is over a month old.
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