Does any guy experiance this???

[AlwaysConfused]

Im 15 and i have a lot of female friends becuz they tend to understand me better. And i hav around the same amount of close guy friends and like a few of them i tend to joke around with for example my friend brushed up against me and i was like u just love to rub urself all ova me huh and he said yea u know u like it and hes like the closest friend and we neva call each otha gay or anything. but anyway people i know but idont know that well are quick to judge me they just come up to me and say are u gay. and i would say no and ask y would u say im gay they say becuz of ur voice or the fact that ur always around girls or how u neva hit on the girls. (i dont think that touching is appropriate or decent (raised this way) ) And when they do see me with the guys they always come in on the wrong parts like me and my friend would be talkin bout like u want this soooo bad or take a pik it lasts longer lol its funni. but can anyone tell me y pple are sooooooooo friggin quick to judge??? And like y do i think like sometimes when i play around wit my friend i want it to like progress and hes like str8 likes a girl and i like a girl too but its sooooo difficult becuz shes like ooooo yea but hes like super attractive and i have no idea if im gay bi or whatt and i need advice sooooo help!!!!

[thepieman]

First of all, there are a lot of guys in a similar position to you. I know a guy at school who hasn't come out, but he only hangs out with girls and has quite a higher voice. A lot of people think he is gay, but we don't know it for certain. Yet people are quick to judge it.

Secondly, most guys I know mess around like that. And it tends to be the straight lads who do it most of all, you're just messing around and having a laugh. Before I came out as bi I did it a lot, and still do a bit to be honest. It's normal, people get over it. Heck I know plenty of guys who have kissed who are completely straight. They're just messing around.

Finally, people do judge and there's nothing you can do about it. It can be wrong, but everyone does it. You've just got to be prepared for it. I hope I've helped. :)

[alex95]

hm... maybe you hang around to many girls most of my friends are guys the girls are like hm.... i dont tell them everything we just talk you know they like me so i dont really tell them everything me and my guy friends are the coolest we call each other gay or i walk past them punch them or talk shit you know or sometimes u cant even walk in peace they will pinch your tite and say name 5 cereals no one calls me gay my voice changed that was back then. Not in a gay way but me and all my friends know where straight so we walk up to each other ask for a hug (we never get it) we just play around call each other gay or make fun of each other lol its fun or wink at each other

[CuriousDestruction]

i get this all the time. i hang out with a bunch of girls, and guys too to be fair, a ton of people think im gay. i'm sorry you are also in that position too but you'll learn to deal with it.

[emt.Cam]

I always had more girl friends than guys growing up and going to school just because I respected girls and treated them unlike most others. There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with that, as they should be treated nicely. Every guy jokes with his friends, even in "gay" ways. It doesn't mean anything, you're just being friends and you both know you're joking. Who cares what other people think or say. Keep it up Michael, you're fine. Don't change who you are because you are a great guy from what I've taken in.

[Dramakingdc]

This happens to me all the time!

[AlwaysConfused]

I always had more girl friends than guys growing up and going to school just because I respected girls and treated them unlike most others. There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with that, as they should be treated nicely. Every guy jokes with his friends, even in "gay" ways. It doesn't mean anything, you're just being friends and you both know you're joking. Who cares what other people think or say. Keep it up Michael, you're fine. Don't change who you are because you are a great guy from what I've taken in.

Yea im not changing my ways at all. i correct them but like one of my guy friends i just told him that i am curious and he said he'd be there for me regardless of my sexuality! i am happy about that...hes cool to and one of my closest friends sooo yep