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LuvsandHugs
October 23rd, 2009, 07:44 PM
ok so i rely like this guy and i thought he used to like me to. We hav never dated but we hav stayed up lite at nite and tlked to each other and i rely thought we had a connection but it suddenly stopped. He has had two girl friends since and it seems tht he doesnt care for me ne more. i wanna forget all bout him but its so hard got any tips? :confused:
Lily of the Valley
October 23rd, 2009, 08:02 PM
Flirt with everyone with a penis.

~Maggot
dead
October 23rd, 2009, 08:24 PM
Flirt with everyone with a penis.

~Maggot

Im sorry but I fail to see how this helps?.
What I suggest doing is expressing your feelings about him by talking to someone you trust about how you feel(before and after).
Lily of the Valley
October 23rd, 2009, 08:34 PM
Im sorry but I fail to see how this helps?You're not a girl. And you're fourteen. You wouldn't understand. By giving her attention to other guys, she's asserting that she can give it to others but him, which takes her mind off him and places her attention on other guys. What I suggest doing is expressing your feelings about him by talking to someone you trust about how you feel(before and after).Which only causes her to focus and brood on her feelings for him.

~Maggot
dead
October 23rd, 2009, 08:39 PM
You're not a girl. And you're fourteen. You wouldn't understand. By giving her attention to other guys, she's asserting that she can give it to others but him, which takes her mind off him and places her attention on other guys. Which only causes her to focus and brood on her feelings for him.

~Maggot

sorry and you make a good point, but I dont see how my age and sex have anything to do with how you know how my emotions and brain work.
Lily of the Valley
October 23rd, 2009, 08:45 PM
sorry and you make a good point, but I dont see how my age and sex have anything to do with how you know how my emotions and brain work.It doesn't really. Girls and guys have different ways of dealing with things, and your age means you don't have as much experience in this area. But all in all, it doesn't make much difference at all. It's just easier for an eighteen year old girl to pull that out of my ass.

~Maggot
LuvsandHugs
October 23rd, 2009, 08:48 PM
HAHA thx both you guys!