To Love a guy

[Stewart]

Isn't it true that if you're bisexual or gay you need to first fall in love with a guy?

Well....I haven't yet. I can picture it, but I haven't found that person yet. Does this mean I'm not bi? Thanks :confused:

[nick]

I dont think so really, only if its equally true that you cant be straight unless you first fall in love with a member of the opposite sex. I would say that you are bi or gay if you feel that you have the capacity to love a member of the same sex and are just waiting for it to happen.

[Zero Beat]

You dont have to be in "love" with a girl when your straight do you? Or does that make you bi? *thinks* I dont think you would have to love a guy to be gay or bi, any attraction can class you. (also if you know your bi or gay) :D Like i know im gay, and i havnt been in "love" yet. Im still waiting for it as well. I cant wait :P

[Alexthemightycricket]

I'm no doubt gay, And i have been in love and still am in love with a guy. But i still was gay before i fell in love with my boyfriend. And you have to choose what your sexuality is but no rush at all.