View Full Version : i've been thinking of endng it all recently
tyler27846
October 22nd, 2009, 11:00 PM
i have been feeling so down recently beacuse of problems in life and i just dont see the point in living anymore and i just want to end it all
DarkWingedAngel
October 22nd, 2009, 11:07 PM
dude don't do it
you have so much to live for
PM me and I will be glad to talk to you:)
Ryhanna
October 22nd, 2009, 11:07 PM
DO NOT DO THAT!!! find something else, i don't know, join a sport club or something, please don't kill yourself
tyler27846
October 23rd, 2009, 06:53 PM
thanks for the concerns guys i didnt think anyone on here would care if i tried to or not but everyone who i talked to is really helping
Discomposure
October 23rd, 2009, 08:59 PM
You see, people do care. Though we are only virtual, we do care.
You say you have a lot of problems going on, think about it this way...
Are these problems so bad that you feel the only way they can be solved is to end your own life, for good, thats it, gone.?
Or is there a part of you that knows, the problems can be solved in other ways. Killing yourself is NOT solving the problem, it's running away from it. I understand that it feels like the worst thing ever when nothing goes right, everything wrong going on in your life is at it's worst and you simply feel you can't go on. But you need to push yourself to pick yourself back up, otherwise you'll find yourself constantly in this situation of wanting to end it.
You haven't actually said what problems your going through, which is fine if you don't wish to speak about them on here, but have you considered seeing a counsellor, or speaking with a close friend or family member about them?
I can honestly promise you that talking about something your going through or has happened to you, or how your feeling can REALLY help. It lifts a huge weight, a problem shared is a problem halved :)
If you do want to talk to someone, but feel you can't to someone close to you then try it virtually. Some people find it easier to speak with people that don't know them about their problems, it differs for different people.
You can always PM me, anytime if you wish to talk. But please DO NOT do anything stupid, as suicide is so permenant, once it's done it's done. There is no going back, and think about the people you will be leaving behind, and how their hearts will be broken over the loss of someone they loved. Remember, somebody ALWAYS cares.
Take care.
tyler27846
October 23rd, 2009, 09:07 PM
i have considered seein a therapist but i dont think i could put full trust in one and the problems i do have are relationship stuff family drama and school problems and everyone i know has someone and i feel alone and i think if i have someone i can be happier
Discomposure
October 23rd, 2009, 09:12 PM
i have considered seein a therapist but i dont think i could put full trust in one and the problems i do have are relationship stuff family drama and school problems and everyone i know has someone and i feel alone and i think if i have someone i can be happier
What you do with a therapist, is build a trusting relationship with them. You probably won't go straight into talking about your problems, they know that in order for you to open up about things, that you need to have their trust.
As for your problems,
Realtionship and school stuff can be awful, and some worse for others. If I can help you in anyway, if there is advice you need in something certian then just let me know, and I'll do my best. As for "family drama" if you would like to talk about it, PM me as this isn't replying and quoting posts isn't for having a coversation.
:)
lengthy_brochure
October 23rd, 2009, 09:51 PM
Honestly, school counselors are great. (well, most of them) They will help you get over almost anything. Today, mine helped me tell my parents that I'm gay. They can fix many things with their magical powers. Plus, It's amazing to have someone to talk to.
tyler27846
October 23rd, 2009, 09:58 PM
Honestly, school counselors are great. (well, most of them) They will help you get over almost anything. Today, mine helped me tell my parents that I'm gay. They can fix many things with their magical powers. Plus, It's amazing to have someone to talk to.
but i am in college so we dont have consuleors but im not real sure if we do r not i just dont think i could trust them with personal stuff and its easier 2 open up to someone online than here at home
tyler27846
October 24th, 2009, 10:20 PM
and once again thanks guys its nice to know that people do care and i am doing much better
Discomposure
October 24th, 2009, 10:23 PM
Good to hear.
You'll get there eventually, you will be able to say "yeah, I really am okay"
PM me anytime :)
tyler27846
October 24th, 2009, 10:27 PM
Good to hear.
You'll get there eventually, you will be able to say "yeah, I really am okay"
PM me anytime :)
thanks amy i will keep it in mind
overcome.
October 25th, 2009, 10:35 AM
I've had a glimpse of how suicide can tear families apart. The pain for them that you've gone is never ending, and they cannot get you back. That's something that anybody who really cares about you will have to deal with for the rest of their life.
Not to mention, you have the rest of your life to lead. I know although now it's dark for you, but someday the darkness will clear and you will obtain peace. I just hope it's not the wrong way, think again of the suffering you'd put other people through doing this. People out there are fighting for their lives, I know it's no concellation as you have problems, but everybody has problems. Then again, yours shouldn't be overlooked - I understand that. Do the right thing for yourself most importantly.
laurita_21
October 25th, 2009, 10:40 AM
you shouldn do it !
you still have so much to look forward to in life !
if u ever need som1 to talk to, i always like meeting new people :)
tyler27846
October 25th, 2009, 12:29 PM
you shouldn do it !
you still have so much to look forward to in life !
if u ever need som1 to talk to, i always like meeting new people :)
Thank you Laura i will keep it in mind
Suicune
October 25th, 2009, 12:42 PM
Please don't do it! :(
Everybody has family, school, relationship problems.
Trust me when you find a helping hand to get through this you will feel amazing.
And think of what you would be leaving behind if you did it? You don't want to hurt the people you love do you?
Trust me, you'll make it. :yes:
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