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DecemberRain
October 22nd, 2009, 04:03 PM
a rant i guess. i just felt the need to say somewhere that my love life sucks, i never seem to fall for the right people=P anyways... anybody else feel the same? i wish there was like some machine that would tell you if you end up happy and with someone you truly love. i wouldnt want the details lol. just a yes or no answer from that nonexistant machine.

Lily of the Valley
October 22nd, 2009, 04:11 PM
It's pretty common for teenagers to pick the wrong people to fall for. Part of maturing is learning not to do that. Just be more careful and more aware of the signs - because the signs are always there, you just gotta learn to notice them.

~Maggot

lipstick_kisses23
October 22nd, 2009, 04:22 PM
i think we all have been there at some point in our life. I myself had a horrible relationship that i had to escape but once you end it you get stronger. It happens to the best of us but as long as you pick yourself up and try again thats what matters most.

WonderChild
October 22nd, 2009, 08:10 PM
I got a bad love life too. I always like the wrong people as well.

tyler27846
October 23rd, 2009, 12:37 PM
I got a bad love life too. I always like the wrong people as well.

same here and i always seem 2 pck loseres and get cheated on

overcome.
October 23rd, 2009, 12:47 PM
Just think of the bad times as life learning experiences. Hopefully you can gain a little insight to the person before you realise you don't want to get together with them, or if you end up getting stuck. The way to do this is to not jump into anything too quickly, just be patient and get to know the person you want to be with or are seeing currently.

Saying that, I know that some people can 'change' in a relationship which happens. When people develop comfort zones with friendships and relationships, true colours can come out, or traits that you didn't notice before may start to appear because they're comfortable. What I'm trying to say I can't quite make clear, atm I just can't word it right. Some people may know what I mean though.

DecemberRain
October 23rd, 2009, 01:02 PM
Yea I get what you mean.

Art_dude
October 25th, 2009, 04:31 PM
Ditto to what Rikki said. Think of the bad relationships as just another point added to your life experience. Teens (hell, a ton of adults) fall for people who aren't compatible with themselves. It's part of life. Maturity is our ability to scan out the bad eggs from the good ones.

XxHaViiK
October 28th, 2009, 12:31 AM
I've had this problem in the past. I kept going for the wrong girls. On the outside and in personality, they were exactly what I loved. But then they would tell me these FREAKY secrets which I won't go into detail about. Good thing I found the perfect girl for me now :D

ILOVEYOU
November 1st, 2009, 11:21 AM
Yeah, same here, i've almost always chosed the wrong person.. btw this time i know she's a good choice for me.. Who knows, maybe i'm making another mistake in my love life.. nobody knows..