My friend told me

[budd55]

My friend and neighbor actually is my age 16, he told me that if you are bisexual, then you are gay. b/c by his terms if you like penis and boys then you are gay and people who like both are not considered bi but gay by his terms anyway. AND also he hates gays and bisexuals and all queers(not meaning to offend any of you), i dont hate them, but dont want them to try and touch or flirt with me. anyways my question is do you agree with him or not

[sam i am]

No i do not..but thats how he thinks and Im cool with that. However, thats not me im fully bisexual not gay

[VeniVidiVici]

well.... as most people on this site will agree, homophobia is generally the fear of himself. maybe he is putting down all gay and bi people to make him self look more straight to you? or to cover up his feelings?

anywho, if you are bi, you are not gay. I have a gf and i still like guys.. case and POINT!

[budd55]

i dont think he is gay, he has a girlfriend and has banged her and multiple other girls and doesnt associate with gays

[crazycoller]

I do not agree with him... my gf and 3 of my bestfriends are bi... bi and gay are totally different things...

[daveywavey]

Sounds alot like ignorance to me personally. Someone that is uneducated in this subject and has probably been brought up that way. Possibly hearing parents or older siblings or people he overheard say that cuz there's kids at my school who say the same thing. People ate afraid of things they don't understand he's just being human.. An ignorant one but everyone is entitlted to there thoughts and opinions. I am bi myself and I enjoy both granted I do like boys more ATM No offense intentionally to ur friend but that's my 2 cents


Davey

[nick]

My friend and neighbor actually is my age 16, he told me that if you are bisexual, then you are gay. b/c by his terms if you like penis and boys then you are gay and people who like both are not considered bi but gay by his terms anyway. AND also he hates gays and bisexuals and all queers(not meaning to offend any of you), i dont hate them, but dont want them to try and touch or flirt with me. anyways my question is do you agree with him or not

IMO your friend is being either ignorant, stupid or both. I really resent you seeming to suggest that just because someone is gay or bi they would want to touch you up or flirt with you. You probably have some gay or bi friends that you dont even know about.

[The Harlequin]

i dont think he is gay, he has a girlfriend and has banged her and multiple other girls and doesnt associate with gays

How can you be sure he doesn't have an attraction to guys that he doesn't understand/is scared of it, he might be saying all of this to convince himself he isn't curious...

It's ironic actually ~ the refusual to acknowledge your feelings and cover it homophobia makes you more likely to have increased intensity with your sexual frustration.

[wisse2012]

no he is full of #@$%$% because it is way diff gay and bi

[budd55]

How can you be sure he doesn't have an attraction to guys that he doesn't understand/is scared of it, he might be saying all of this to convince himself he isn't curious...

It's ironic actually ~ the refusual to acknowledge your feelings and cover it homophobia makes you more likely to have increased intensity with your sexual frustration.

well he is a well dont want to sound mean but a skinhead, has black friends and knows ALOT of ppl in good and bad positions but doesnt like gays, and n***ers sorry if i cant use that blanked out word

[Fourth Dimension]

ur friend sounds stupid

[Cinderandsmoke]

Well i am a Lesbian and I personaly think that the reason that they think like that is because no one that they love (family wise) is gay. I have a lesbian aunt and i was taught that everybody is a good person regaurdless of their sexuality.