becuz my post got locked...

[unsure]

I made the OP titled "was I raped?". I was looking for serious guidance on a serious issue I was having. I want to thank the people who offered that to me sincerly, along with the words of encouragment on the topic of me keeping my baby.

As of now, the man who raped me is in jail. It had come to my knowledge through a mutual associate of ours that he had put GHB, a common date rape drug, into my drinks that night. that was the reason I wasn't feeling good and blacked out. I filed a police report and approximately a week later was notified he had confessed and is in jail.

I am now 5 months pregnant and expecting a baby girl that I am naming Adelynn Sharana, after the base my unit is stationed at in Afghanistan.

What I do feel I need to defend myself is the response of some posters. When I called the morning after pill the abortion pill I meantit. I believe life begins at conception, when sperm meets egg. And yes, if you believe life begins then, then the morning after pill is an abortion. It prevents a fertilized egg from attaching to the uretine wall which then results in the death of the egg. So call me ignorant all you want, but I do know what I am talking about.

I will admit that times it is hard to cope with how my pregnancy came about but all I need to do is look at an ultrasound or feel a playful kick from her to realize that my child may not have been conceived out of love, but she is the greatest love I have yet to know.

[Amyxoxo]

Well, well done, it sounds like you have been through alto and i wish you and your baby all the best in life.
xxx

[nick]

I admire you tremendously for this, as perhaps you already know. I'm really glad to hear that that bastard is in prison where he belongs. I hope those people that were determined to knock you in the other thread will stay away, unless they want to admit given the new evidence of the date rape drug, that they were wrong.

Good luck and very best wishes again.

[The Batman]

I'm sorry that you had to go through that but the morning after pill is in no way abortion

The morning-after pill will prevent or delay the release of an egg from the ovary if given prior to ovulation, or it will help prevent the egg from traveling down the fallopian tubes and implanting in the uterus if you have already ovulated. The morning-after pill reduces the chance of getting pregnant; it does NOT cause an abortion.
http://www.nyabortion.com/birthcontrol/themorningpill.shtml

But hopefully you can find a real father for the child. You're a very strong woman for this.

[unsure]

On the topic of the abortion pill well just have to agree to disagree.

[Ladybird94]

You are an admirable person, I really do hope you and your baby are well when she arrives :) xx

[Kahn]

The best of my wishes go to you and your baby. At least justice was served with the man and at least he confessed.

[Fusion]

I admire you alot :), its good to see that the guy that hurt/ raped you is in prison I hope everything works out for the best :), are you going to tell him that you are carrying his baby?

[unsure]

As far as he knows I niscarried. My best guy friend is signing the birth certificate, whixh establishes paternity. Thàt man will never touch my child.

[The Batman]

Is your best guy friend going to help you raise the child?

[unsure]

Yes he is. Financially, I do not need help. I make over 2500 monthly. But he will raise Adelynn as her father.

[Triceratops]

Not meaning to sound rude or nosy, but how do you earn that amount of money?
Also, how old are you really?

[unsure]

I really am 18, ill be 19 in a month. And I am a Sergeant in the United States Army Reserves. I work full time, 40 hours a week to earn my living.

[Sapphire]

You're a Sergeant in the US Army Reserve at 18 years old but are apparently incapable of understanding that the morning after pill doesn't terminate a pregnancy?

[BuryYourFlame]

This is a warning for any attacks to stop right now and for no more to begin, otherwise an infraction will be given.

~ Jetfire

[unsure]

You're a Sergeant in the US Army Reserve at 18 years old but are apparently incapable of understanding that the morning after pill doesn't terminate a pregnancy?

Like I had said in my post, I believe life begins at conception. Conception is when the sperm reaches the egg, otherwise known as fertilization. Implantation occurs after fertilization. The morning after pill works by not allowing a fertilized egg to attach itself to the uretine wall. Which is what implantation is. So, if you had any common sense than you would understand that under what I believe, taking the morning after pill would be termintating a pregnancy, aka an abortion.

All you have done on my posts is point fingers and not offered any advice. There is np need for you to comment on any of my posts. You dont help, you dont offer insight, you attack. So please, stay off of my posts.

[Lily of the Valley]

All you have done on my posts is point fingers and not offered any advice. There is np need for you to comment on any of my posts. You dont help, you dont offer insight, you attack. So please, stay off of my posts.What advice were you looking for? You didn't ask a question or even present a semblance of one. So what were people supposed to say? "Good job, you're not aborting it like I would, now excuse me while I go meet a man with a coat hanger"?

~Maggot

[unsure]

What advice were you looking for? You didn't ask a question or even present a semblance of one. So what were people supposed to say? "Good job, you're not aborting it like I would, now excuse me while I go meet a man with a coat hanger"?

~Maggot


My first post is titled "was i raped?" but because of people arguing on my post it was locked, so i couldnt even post repsonses to it, which is why i made this post.

[Lily of the Valley]

My first post is titled "was i raped?" but because of people arguing on my post it was locked, so i couldnt even post repsonses to it, which is why i made this post.But you were bitching because the person didn't give you advice. 1) Why's it matter if you post responses? 2) Why did you say you wanted advice when you only made this post to "post repsonses" (sic)?

~Maggot

[unsure]

Because the same person is starting the same stupid shit as she did on my last post.

[unsure]

I wasn't bitching. The same person that was partly responsible for getting my post loxcked before is now talking about the same thing that started the drama on the other post. There is no need for this.

[Lily of the Valley]

I wasn't bitching. The same person that was partly responsible for getting my post loxcked before is now talking about the same thing that started the drama on the other post. There is no need for this.What you want to call it is irrelevant. My point still stands that you can't bitch (or not bitch) because someone doesn't give you advice when you never asked or even implied that you wanted or needed it.

Also, a person can start something, but it doesn't go anywhere if you don't respond. So don't get into a fight with someone and then blame it all on them.

~Maggot

[cherry_boi]

gratz on dealing with that situation maturely :)

haha it's funny to me that some ppl still argue with u about the pill, lmao totally not the point in this situation....they r dumb :P

i wish u the best of luck

and that's a really pretty name for ur baby :)

[Triceratops]

To the OP, I honestly don't see the point in your thread anymore.
If you make another thread related to this, which is immediately going to cause trouble, then I'll infract you (and anyone else who decides to join in).

Locked. :locked: