I need advice

[Philip]

I'm 15 yo guy and i have a girlfriend(15 year old)yesterday she told me that she want to have sex with me . please i need some advice(to do it or not and ......)We love each other.i need some advice to Friday
(she wants to do it on Friday).:what:

[WonderChild]

i really dunno what to say cause im 13 but, if you do have sex be sure to use condom :D


Sorry if not much help

[Philip]

Ok.Thanks

[karl]

If you need advice then you're not ready, so don't do it till you don't need advice. It's as simple as that

[Philip]

I want to hear what you think about this

i think that i'm ready but I don't expect such offer from her(I was shocked )

[nick]

I agree with Karl really, if you feel ready and happy with the idea why are you asking us? Dont do it just because you feel the girl, your friends, or anyone else somehow expects you to. But if you really are relaxed about it and feel ready in yourself then practice safe sex and have fun.

[laurita_21]

well... if you love eachother and you feel comfortable doing it ..
i gess ? im not sure though

[Contra]

If you really love each other, and you're both comfortable with it, go for it.
It's really up to you both. Discuss if you're really ready with her.

[SlightlySane]

If you aren't sure you are ready and have to ask us if you are. Then you simply are not ready. Don't do anything until you can do it without having to be reassured

[VeniVidiVici]

Dont do it only because she wants to, do because your ready and you can handle the side affects of sex. generally, sex will change a relationship. you will either get really awkward with eachtother or turn into sex maniacs, but those are the extremes. If you arent ready for sex and ur partner pushes it on you you will not be happy in the long run. i assume that you are loosing your virginity too so i would choose whether or not this person is the right one for you.

[The Batman]

The fact that you're asking if you should do it show's that you aren't ready for it. Just wait until you know that you're both ready and you want to have sex with her. If you love each other you can wait.

[Giles]

As Empty Misery has said... if you have to ask us, complete strangers, if you should have sex with some1 we don't know. then your obviously not ready...

I say this to any1/every1 that asks this question, I'd say your not ready.

[Darkened-Inferno]

Yes, just by asking, it shows that you're not really ready. It's great that you love each other, but I would suggest waiting until you're both completely ready. You'll know when you're ready and if she really loves you, she'll be willing to wait for you as well.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[Beautiful Obsession]

well, the only thing you need tothink about now is yourself, its ok your girlfriend saying she wants to have sex with you, but are you ready to have sex with her?
if your not, or your not sure, then dont go ahead with it until your 100% sure its wht you want aswell. Or you'll regret it, and if you decide to go ahead make sure you use contreception aswell..
x

[impact_75]

If you both think your ready then go right ahead. But be sure to use a condom!

[crazycoller]

it depends on how you feel about it. Are you ready for it? are you able to handle the possible consequences... std's, pregnancy etc, and if you are.... just use a condom

[Kahn]

Recently I have had three girls all tell they wanted to have sex with me. I turned all three down. I am only 13 but I know that I won't have sex until I'm married, or until I am with the person I know I love.

I don't mean too sound ignorant but I am throwing my two cents into the pile. I don't think you should. I mean you are only two years older than me, and you are unsure you want to.
One: The chances of you staying with this girl is very slim.
Two: When you break up it might seem awkward
Three: If you don't do it safely it could result badly and become teenage pregnancy...
Not necessarily a bad thing just uncalled for.

This is just my opinion. I am not saying you shouldn't because if you feel O.K with it than go ahead and have fun.

[Art_dude]

The very fact you just asked us is a sign that you're having doubts. Doubts = not ready.
Personally, I think all teens should at LEAST wait till they're 16 to have sex, but if you honestly feel comfortable with the idea, and you feel comfortable with her, then sure: go for it.

[Philip]

thanks everyone for your advice but i decided to do it

[Aves]

If you two are ready. Just FYI, sex can REALLY change your relationship. And if you don't want to, and she dumps you because of it, she's a shallow bitch (pardon my french).

[cherry_boi]

the fact that u gotta ask if it's ok for u to have sex kinda hints to me that ur not ready

but if u got through with it use a condom, lol don't wanna b a daddy at age 15

[XxHaViiK]

First you need to think, do you have access to condoms?
Second, are you really ready to have sex with her? You need to be completely sure that she's the one, because you only have one virginity.

[Lily of the Valley]

If you're gonna do it, make sure she's turned on before you enter her (to prevent hurting her) and make sure to use birth controls and condoms. And have fun. :)

~Maggot

[Philip]

we did it.

[Art_dude]

from the brevity and lack of emotion in that last post, I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that it didn't go well... Not that we want graphic details or anything, but how do you feel about the situation now in hindsight?

[Philip]

it was good.but she offered me to do it at school(yes maybe she is crazy)but now i don't know what to do:what:

[MacMilker]

mightt piss her off but maybe u shouldnt id use a condom by all means and if ur ready try it :)

[Art_dude]

I didn't mean to ask if it was physically good (I think we all know that)
What I meant was, how do you feel emotionally. Any regrets? Do you feel that you were in fact ready? The whole point of the post was to see if you felt you mature enough to have sex. I think we'd all like to know how you feel about it now.

[Ghoti]

Eh.. you should wait a bit... til 17 at least. sorry. I know its tempting, but you shouldnt until ur married.

[Lily of the Valley]

Eh.. you should wait a bit... til 17 at least. sorry. I know its tempting, but you shouldnt until ur married.Ancient Israel called. It wants its morals back.

~Maggot