Bed at Nite

[MAK94]

hey, see i had to sleep next to my cousin last nite because of bed space issues and he wanted to use my iTouch for internet..so we did and we looked at porn...so i started to touch his dick thru his pants while under the covers...he seemed at times to be like stop it but really quietly but then he said nothing sometimes even if i continued...then i started feeling his dick thru his pants to the point that he started gettin a hard on and he was like stop it again and then he moved his body....tbh it wasnt awkward the next morning between us and he seemd arlight....bad thing? good thing? and shud i do it again? (if its aginst the rules and its locked pm me pls)

[Uprising]

Its his body and if he's not okay with you touching him that way then don't do it again. It usually is better if you talk after that or it gets worse and worse.

[MAK94]

hmm true but he wasnt like against it like etc...he said it a few times but he didnt fully resist tho and he didnt seemed pissed at me the next morning

[ChosenOne]

If he was telling you to stop then you should have stopped. Just talk to him and see how he feels about it though.

[chris__robin]

i dunno man he's your cousin. let it go

[karl]

If it wasn't awkward between you and he didn't stop you then sure try again

[Spunky]

The general rule is if someone says stop then stop but in your case the only real resistance it the time he moved his body. I would use my best judgement on his tone of how he said stop to say if you should try again. Like if he was like saying serious then I wouldn't try again but if he said it like almost joking then you could try again.

[Cloud]

when someone says stop
the general thing to do
IS STOP
dnot even bother trying again

he probably didnt get pissed because he didnt want to upset you or somethin
and that was a massive violation of privacy ahd hes your cousin so do not do it agan

[theOperaGhost]

That was bad. There doesn't have to be physical resistance for someone to want you to stop...all they have to do is say stop, which he did. You should have stopped right away. Never do that again...stick to touching yourself, not your damn cousin.

[nick]

when someone says stop
the general thing to do
IS STOP
....
and that was a massive violation of privacy ahd hes your cousin so do not do it agan

That was bad. There doesn't have to be physical resistance for someone to want you to stop...all they have to do is say stop, which he did. You should have stopped right away. Never do that again...stick to touching yourself, not your damn cousin.
Completely agree, sharing a bed under those circumstances is not an invitation to start touching the other guy up whoever it is, and he if says stop then just stop. That was basically sexual abuse.

[kdddd]

Generally, if someone says stop then you stop, even if it was not much resistance, so It's sorta up to you if you do it again, but if you do I think you should sit down and talk to him, and make sure whether or not he wants to do it. So just make sure hes okay with it.

[TheKingDavis]

Talk to him and see if it was ok, usually hormones over power you when watching porn and that kind of stuff, his hormones probably wouldnt let him think right

[delete.please]

Yeah I definitely don't suggest doing that again.

[Severus Snape]

If he meant stop, which he probably did since he moved his body away, you should have stopped.

You might have wanted to keep going, but he gets to decide since its his dick. I know how you feel though. It sucks when people either arent in the mood or dont want to :P

[hiker1992]

He said stop for a reason, and you should have stopped at that point.

He probably didn't get mad at you because he didn't want to upset you thereby making things more awkward. I wouldn't recommend touching him in that way again, and if you must touch another guy, why not try it on someone you're not actually related to? A little less negative repercussions that way.

[Darkened-Inferno]

Depends on your cousin's tone when he said "stop." Since he said stop, unless he was joking, I wouldn't recommend trying again, unless well he's willing next time. So, I wouldn't try again, if he said stop, then that was wrong of you to keep going. I hope I was of some help to you and I hope you and your cousin will be okay.

[kenshin8106]

wow wtf dude....he said stop you stop, ur his cousin, i imagine younger, and thats y u took advantage of the situation, when sumone says stop you STOP, even if they dont say nything loud or abrupt, hes ur cousin, he doesnt want to hurt your feelings, you should apologize in my opinion and never do it again, unless you guys talk about it beforehand and he says hes fine with it then sure...i guess its okay, but make sure hes 100% comfortable with it, you have no right to do that

[Contra]

I don't think that experimenting sexual things with family is such a good idea. You shouldn't try again and you should have stopped right then because he didn't want to.

[Giles]

when someone says stop
the general thing to do
IS STOP
dnot even bother trying again

he probably didnt get pissed because he didnt want to upset you or somethin
and that was a massive violation of privacy ahd hes your cousin so do not do it agan

That was bad. There doesn't have to be physical resistance for someone to want you to stop...all they have to do is say stop, which he did. You should have stopped right away. Never do that again...stick to touching yourself, not your damn cousin.

Completely agree, sharing a bed under those circumstances is not an invitation to start touching the other guy up whoever it is, and he if says stop then just stop. That was basically sexual abuse.

I think that told you everything you need to know?

If ANYONE says stop when your doing tnhings like that, you should stop. that was basically sexual abuse because he asked you to stop, he may not of followed through telling you to stop again, but he said the word STOP...

[charlie w]

i think everyone above has already said what i think. look, when a guy says stop in this situation, they generally mean it. also, experimenting with your family (which includes cousins ect) is only going to end up with something bad happening.

[thatguy7419]

if i were you i wouldnt do it, couse then you always have to have the thought that he may have told other people.

[crazycoller]

when someone says stop... you stop... talk to him... ur fam.. he'll understand

[Trav-G]

if it wasnt your cousin id say yes do it again. but no it your cousin.

[George9791]

maybe he enjoyed

[david_1990]

u should have stopped .. but maybe he liked it in some ways but he thought it was awkard

[DjDream]

Well here's the thing, he might have enjoyed but somehow felt bad that he was enjoying it. If he asks you to look at porn together that most likely is a green light. My personal advise is to do it while he is sleeping because even though he will feel it he won't feel guilt because he was "asleep". Good Luck

[nick]

Well here's the thing, he might have enjoyed but somehow felt bad that he was enjoying it. If he asks you to look at porn together that most likely is a green light. My personal advise is to do it while he is sleeping because even though he will feel it he won't feel guilt because he was "asleep". Good Luck
Looking at porn together is not giving someone else the green light to touch you up. Touching someone up while they are asleep is still assault and an abuse of their trust. Dont do it.

[ChosenOne]

My personal advise is to do it while he is sleeping because even though he will feel it he won't feel guilt because he was "asleep". k

No, I don't recommend that.

[Mikey]

Thats kinda awkward but its you experimenting. I would just forgeti t happened