gay parents.

[Bored0405]

i am properly going to cause a bit of a fight with this topic and my opipion. But i gotta say wot i gotta say.

I am a gay man and i love kids. But i will never never adopt a child. Because a feel in todays world, a child with 2 dads would be bullied and make there life a living hell, wot this says about the world that we live in is terrible.
but not only would the child suffer, but i would not want my child to suffer either. so i am not going to adopt, not because i think it is wrong but for the childs sake.

[Bobby]

That's normal and I can understand where your coming from. A child with too gay dads or moms would definatley get bullied and that would put you and the child through a lot of pain. I know in Ohio there are some orphanages that won't even give a child to gay parents. That's wrong ans sick, but it's the way life goes. And sometimes life sucks.

[Bored0405]

exactly which is sad cause i would love to be dad, but i couldn't but a child though it...wot a sometimes depressing world we do live in.

[kolte]

you could allways be a single parent if you wanted to be, its not that big a deal, and the more gays adopt kids then the more normal it will become.

[redcar]

i am at this point in time 100% against same sex couples adopting. i think at this moment the climate is just not ready for same sex couples to adopt. unfortunatly we are still living in a homophobic world and i just dont think it is right for the children. now i know that two men and two women can make better parents than some str8 couples but i just think it would be too hard on the kids.

but then again as kolte says the more that do it the more normal it would become although i am still of the opinion that it shouldnt happen, yet.

[R&b_Boy]

you could allways be a single parent if you wanted to be, its not that big a deal, and the more gays adopt kids then the more normal it will become.

yeah just be a single parent.. they had something on the discovery channel.. it showed these to 2 gay guys who were a couple and they adopted to black twins. I think it's best if u just be a single parent and adopt (it will be best)

[Bored0405]

i am at this point in time 100% against same sex couples adopting. i think at this moment the climate is just not ready for same sex couples to adopt. unfortunatly we are still living in a homophobic world

well said mr red car

[R&b_Boy]

hey ya'll they are going to talk about this issue on THE MICHAEL BASDEN SHOW 2 morrow i think.. that comes on on The Radio.. in different cities in the U.S.A so don't miss it.. i know the Radio Staion Here but don't know it anywhere else.

[Whisper]

bored how old are you?

[kolte]

cody that question would be more sutied in a pm.
its irrelevent to this debate.
keep that kind of talk to privit messeges or email.
thanx.

[northskater110]

i am at this point in time 100% against same sex couples adopting. i think at this moment the climate is just not ready for same sex couples to adopt. unfortunatly we are still living in a homophobic world and i just dont think it is right for the children. now i know that two men and two women can make better parents than some str8 couples but i just think it would be too hard on the kids.

but then again as kolte says the more that do it the more normal it would become although i am still of the opinion that it shouldnt happen, yet.
i dont mean to affend any1 and apoligize if i do but its their life and isn't god all forgiving? so if he is gay(which i have no problem with) he will be forgiven

[redcar]

i dont mean to affend any1 and apoligize if i do but its their life and isn't god all forgiving? so if he is gay(which i have no problem with) he will be forgiven
i do believe that God is all forgiving, but this isnt about God, this is about gay parents and in this situation i dont personally think God has anything with it. i am making my own opinion on the issue completly independant of religion.

[R&b_Boy]

a homosexual kid will still be made fun of if his parents are straight so i realy don't see the big deal?

[kolte]

yeah but a stright kid will be made fun of for having gay parents.
and it can be quite awful I'm sure.
more so when there very young though.
other parents not letting them come over to play.
little kids taunting them "you have to daddies you have two daddies"
and that may not seem bad to you, but for a child, thats hell.
they wouldnt adapt as easy.
and they would be very confused.

[redcar]

but i see it this way, going through the teenage years is not always an easy ride at all, we all encounter problems. now if your parents were gay, think how much harder your life would become, from people in school making fun of you. it shouldnt care, but unfortunatly it does, people are so narrow minded about some things and i find this esspecially with teenagers. i just couldnt put a child through it , cause i know i would hate to go through it myself.

[kolte]

I totally agree alex.
but like i said, the more gay cuples adopt, the more normal it shall become.

[redcar]

i think before we start letting gay couples adopt we have to make first of all being gay fully acceptable to society. now i know its getting better but i still think its far from the ideal. i know what you are saying the more people do the more normal it will become, i just think we should tackle being gay first.

[kolte]

I agree, but I still think that homosexuals should have the right to adopt.
remember, that interacial cuples where seen as 'evil' by the chuch and immoral back int he day.
but now its a widly accepted and welcomed practice.
same, i believe, will go for homosexual marriage.

[redcar]

the right should be there, but not yet. i just think that when we involve children, it needs to be taken very carefully. at this stage it goes behond of what the rights of homosexuals are and being treated equally to would the child be happy.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

In my opinion.. gays adopting is cruel on the child... the child would be bullied big time...

[kolte]

but its not the parents fault
its societies fault for having such a narrow minded population.
at least with the slow fall of christianity, homosexuality will becomre more accepted.

[redcar]

i am not going to get into a religious debate whit you but Christianity wont fall, however people will become more accepting of differences around us. but i dont blame society for having such a narrow mind as a whole, because it is human nature not to accept things that are different, although people will be become more accepting.

[kolte]

I didnt really want to get into a religious debate.
but you cant argue the fact that christianity is falling in numbers.
old christians are dying.
and new christians are few and far between.

Gays should be able to adopt. But I think instead of worrying about that right now, they should be worring about how they are going to be accepted by society.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

ye they should be able to adopt... but all im sayin its cruel...

[redcar]

ye they should be able to adopt... but all im sayin its cruel...
it sounds a bit to me like you are contradicting yourself there. :|

that would be like be saying its cruel to kick dogs, but still people should be able to do it.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

i dont wanna cause a fuss lol... il just go back into my corner...

[redcar]

but your not causing a fuss at all, just expressing your opinion, which you are entilted to just as much as everyone else. if you feel its wrong dont be afraid to say it.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

ye i know.. but i don't know what im talkin bout so ill just be quiet...