View Full Version : I think ive had enough of him
Dibzy-Time
October 17th, 2009, 01:36 PM
Ive been with my boyfriend just under 2 years.
When he found out my issues he was really supportive but kn ow he just dosent care even though my situations have become worse. Hes turned into an ott obser person.
I cant take the fact that even though ive helped and listend to him and he knows things have got worse he just shrugs it off.
he knows how i fel and everytime i tell him it just gets worse.
HELP!!:mad:
PaperFacesOnParade
October 18th, 2009, 03:37 AM
Darling, everyone gets fed up of people. Try talking to him about how this is making you feel, and if he is still being the same... well... is he really worth it? You need someone to care for you and support you... good luck <3
Misty.
October 18th, 2009, 04:11 AM
he needs "i need to talk"
n needs a serious talking :P :P
Ryhanna
October 18th, 2009, 06:54 AM
#1 he DOES need you to talk to him
#2 perhaps he does care about your situation, he might just have no clue what to do for you and decide the best thing for him to do is give you space which is really touching.
Cybertone
October 18th, 2009, 01:01 PM
confront him properly about it. Tell him how you feel about him not careering. If he still can't find the time of day to care about your problems, then maybe you should consider leaving his ass. If your partner of two years is not interested in supporting you emotionally, then what's the point? Isn't it a major part of why we seek out romantic partners, to have somebody to make it all better, and to feel safe with?
BUT in his defense I will remind you to make sure your not just sounding like a whinny *****. I'm not saying that you do, but feeling overly sorry for yourself is never charming. Make sure you make the seriousness of the matter clear.
Art_dude
October 18th, 2009, 06:12 PM
Cybertone pretty much nailed it.
If he isn't showing the support you deserve because he's not fully aware of the situation, then YOU need to take the initiative to sit down and express how you're feeling. Men aren't mind readers! However, if you've made your feelings known, and he still can't find the emotional maturity to help you through a difficult time, then you should leave his sorry ass. Of course, I don't have all the info so I can't make any last judgements, but I would try once again making your intentions known and give him the chance to prove his worth.
Mikey
October 21st, 2009, 07:04 PM
Just have a talk and tell him how you feel
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