mom is whining at me for nothing...

[IowaBoy]

alright, so this morning as i do every sat. when mom is off i woke up to whining and screaming over nothing. every sat i will wake up to being yelled at to get up, to go to yard sales. not that i do not like to go to yard sales its just that when mom goes well you gonna be sitting in care for half an hour while she looks at baby close, when yet she does not have any young kids. see but now here is the kicker, if i am up on sunday early i will turn the tables and do what she does to me, yell and scream for her to get up (hehe, parents learn what you do to your kids, the hell you put us in).

any suggestions, mom is pouting over this still.

[Harley Quinn]

alright, so this morning as i do every sat. when mom is off i woke up to whining and screaming over nothing. every sat i will wake up to being yelled at to get up, to go to yard sales. not that i do not like to go to yard sales its just that when mom goes well you gonna be sitting in care for half an hour while she looks at baby close, when yet she does not have any young kids. see but now here is the kicker, if i am up on sunday early i will turn the tables and do what she does to me, yell and scream for her to get up (hehe, parents learn what you do to your kids, the hell you put us in).

any suggestions, mom is pouting over this still.

Your mom must have a lot on her mind, she need to have a time out but yet she can't because she is looking after the family. The only thing you can really do is keep your head down and try to ignore the shouting because the odds are it will stop in the near future. If you are shouting at her on a regular basis that can also influence your mom's behavior. But the fact is, your shouting at her and so she will shout at you. Just do the best you can to help out every so often. How can she be expected to do most things? She will need your help and that's it. Or you could even have a sit down with her.

[IowaBoy]

i've tried everything, tried talking, even tried going to one of them shrinks or what ever you call them, always ended up in her crying and me getting pissed off over having to listion to the whining. she is on tons of pills for this, yet i do not do anything wrong but sit and try to enjoy my weekend off school.

[Harley Quinn]

i've tried everything, tried talking, even tried going to one of them shrinks or what ever you call them, always ended up in her crying and me getting pissed off over having to listion to the whining. she is on tons of pills for this, yet i do not do anything wrong but sit and try to enjoy my weekend off school.

See your mom has a problem of her own, that just shows you that she needs your help. You shouldn't just be sitting around doing nothing. If your sitting down doing nothing, how can you expect her to be nice to you?
It's impossible for her to do everything, you need to help her out, don't sit back and listen HELP!. Shrinks may not help her no, but that doesn't mean you cant help her in your own way.

[IowaBoy]

i have tried to help, i just can't stand living the way she wants me to live. i am not the little perfect child, my dad was the same way at 15, hard headed, and stubborn.

[Harley Quinn]

i have tried to help, i just can't stand living the way she wants me to live. i am not the little perfect child, my dad was the same way at 15, hard headed, and stubborn.

Hve you tried to explain this to her?
Or you could try talking to your dad, he could help you because he might be in the same situation himself, why don't you try to calm yourself down and breathe. This may help you to become more vigilant of her and her shouting. If you ignore it i can help you out. Try giving this a think first, where would you be in this world without your mom? The truth is you wouldn't even be here, try cutting her a break sometimes.