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Don3
October 16th, 2009, 05:21 PM
Before you all realized you were a bisexual did you think you were gay??? If so please elaborate on how you came to the conclusion that you were bi, what made you realize it?

nick
October 16th, 2009, 05:34 PM
No, before I realised I was bi I thought I was straight.

What made me realise? dont be obtuse

Sapphire
October 16th, 2009, 08:25 PM
I never thought that I was a lesbian.
I thought I was straight.
I then realised I was bisexual.
That's all there is to know.

DareDevil
October 17th, 2009, 12:26 AM
Usually the progression is Straight -> Bi -> Gay

with a stop somewhere on that line. I can't think of anyone I know (and I know a lot of em ;) ) who thought they were full-on gay and then took a step back and said they were bi (and stayed that way.)

Some people (myself included on occassion) will jokingly say coming out as bi is sort of the foot in the door, if only because (again, myself included) a lot of those people tend to "re-come out" as gay once people seem to have accepted the bi thing pretty well.

Not to say everyone is the same way. Just seems to be the road most of my male friends went down, heh.

Severus Snape
October 17th, 2009, 12:54 PM
I thought I was straight and curious, but I found out later I wasn't just in a phase. I really liked guys and wanted to be involved with them. I realized that when I was in 8th grade. It was hard to face the facts though because I was scared to be attracted to guys

laurita_21
October 17th, 2009, 12:58 PM
im only 14 but i think i migh be bi
but i never though myself as a lesbian
i though i was str8
yet agen im only 14 and i could change :}

Stewart
October 17th, 2009, 01:20 PM
All my life I thought I was straight, but when I first started pueberty I began to realize that guys were attractive. I brushed it off and 3 years later, I realized I was bi but liked girls more.

mike123
October 17th, 2009, 03:25 PM
Yes, first i was like: I'm str8, 100% sure. After i was like: Am i gay? Becoz i saw alot of hot boys(girls too).. And now i found out i like both :) So i'm bi.
Idd it sound wierd lol and yes bad english :P