How to stay in a relationship

[kyle95]

When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you.

When you see her start crying, just hold her and don't say a word.

When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.

When she pushes you or hits you cuz she thinks shes stronger than you, grab her and dont let go.

When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her.

When she's quiet, ask her whats wrong.

When she ignores you, give her your attention.

When she pulls away, pull her back.

When you see her at her worst, tell her she's beautiful.

When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.

When she's scared, protect her.

When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh

When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.

When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up.

When she says that she loves you, she really does more than you can understand.

When she grabs at your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.

When she bumps into you; bump into her back and make her laugh.

When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.

When she looks at you in your eyes, dont look away until she does.

When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.

When she reposts this bulletin she wants you to read it.

Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.

When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go.

Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.

Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid.

Give her the world.

Let her wear your clothes.

When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.

Let her know she's important.

Don't talk about other girls around her.

Kiss her in the pouring rain

When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Whose butt am i kicking baby?"

[Aves]

True, and very nice

But did something happen?

[Sage]

I actually really disagree with a lot of those things, as most girls I've met can't stand any of that fluff. It's pretty outdated crap too, in that lot of those things are assuming or pushing to make the man the dominant one in a relationship, where in reality many women are actually the more dominant of a couple.

[kyle95]

True, and very nice

But did something happen?

tks mate. i almost lost my gf today. she was in bad car accident. i wish i had done 10% of those things for her.

[kyle95]

I actually really disagree with a lot of those things, as most girls I've met can't stand any of that fluff. It's pretty outdated crap too, in that lot of those things are assuming or pushing to make the man the dominant one in a relationship, where in reality many women are actually the more dominant of a couple.


i didn't write this, it's from http://www.fanpop.com/spots/love/articles/15004 and judging from what the reaction of most people that have read it, they're not offended because no offense was intended.

outdated & crap? far from it. in true love, there's no dominance. a prominent psychologist on BBC 1 said that most relationships that falter is directly as a result of an absence of courtship. males and females assume their roles, gauge and assess their partners and it's a losing proposition to fight biology because in the end, when the dust settles from heated debates about sociological roles, one girl and one boy stand before each other in a state of unconditional love and give of themselves freely to one another - no dominance, and as you say, no fluff - for they've entered the realm of pure love.

[Sage]

i didn't write this, it's from http://www.fanpop.com/spots/love/articles/15004 and judging from what the reaction of most people that have read it, they're not offended because no offense was intended.

outdated & crap? far from it. in true love, there's no dominance. a prominent psychologist on BBC 1 said that most relationships that falter is directly as a result of an absence of courtship. males and females assume their roles, gauge and assess their partners and it's a losing proposition to fight biology because in the end, when the dust settles from heated debates about sociological roles, one girl and one boy stand before each other in a state of unconditional love and give of themselves freely to one another - no dominance, and as you say, no fluff - for they've entered the realm of pure love.

You clearly lack any understanding of dominant and passive roles in relationships. It's always there whether you notice or not and this guide practically says, in more or less words, "guys should suck up to their girlfriends".

[ILOVEYOU]

Wow mate, Thats amazing, thank you for this selection, i wont forget'em. ;).
and.. i'm sooo soo Sorry about your gf... i feel you, i had such same situation like 2 years ago, but mine died, i hope your gf will be ok soon, if not.. dont worry, Love doesnt stand by time, it stands by eternity... ;)

[mrmcdonaldduck]

if i had done alot of those things with my gf i would still be with her. Thanks so much, i will do these things.

[kyle95]

You clearly lack any understanding of dominant and passive roles in relationships. It's always there whether you notice or not and this guide practically says, in more or less words, "guys should suck up to their girlfriends".

it's clear to me that you've never been touched by true love. I'm sorry for you.

For those who know love, no explanation is necessary. For those who do not, no explanation is possible.

Wow mate, Thats amazing, thank you for this selection, i wont forget'em. ;).
and.. i'm sooo soo Sorry about your gf... i feel you, i had such same situation like 2 years ago, but mine died, i hope your gf will be ok soon, if not.. dont worry, Love doesnt stand by time, it stands by eternity... ;)


tks for the support mate, i really appreciate it. i don't know how you were able to move on. i'd be devastated. she's hanging on by a thread.

if i had done alot of those things with my gf i would still be with her. Thanks so much, i will do these things.


tks mate. it's not the definitive answer to everything, but at least it's a start.


oh np mate, you're good Guy, and you're worth the support ;).
umm.. it took me a long time to forget about it, i was lucky because it was right after her death that i Saw that one girl that i used to love, the one i told you about.. and stopped the progress for reasons... anyway, i couldnt believe she's dead, it took me about a week to believe it, then it took me about.. 2 or 3 month to forget about it.. but... i'm Sure your GF will be ok Soon, dont worry, just go visit her.. Send Her energy.. by your Soul. it will make her to think about you, and the Love that you have in your heart For her.. that she'll miss this Pure Love if she leave you behind.. :) Dont worry Andrew.

i truly appreciate the support mate. you're right, i ought to be with her night and day till she pulls through. it's just so difficult seeing her like this. i'll read her a story, hopefully she'll gain consciousness.


Ok, Kyle and Tim, stop fighting.

Also Kyle I'm so sorry about what happened to your girlfriend, I hope she gets better.

sorry for sounding hostile. i'm not myself at the moment. tks connor. i hope so too.

[laurita_21]

" When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Whose butt am i kicking baby?"
lool love that !

[ILOVEYOU]

tks for the support mate, i really appreciate it. i don't know how you were able to move on. i'd be devastated. she's hanging on by a thread.

oh np mate, you're good Guy, and you're worth the support ;).
umm.. it took me a long time to forget about it, i was lucky because it was right after her death that i Saw that one girl that i used to love, the one i told you about.. and stopped the progress for reasons... anyway, i couldnt believe she's dead, it took me about a week to believe it, then it took me about.. 2 or 3 month to forget about it.. but... i'm Sure your GF will be ok Soon, dont worry, just go visit her.. Send Her energy.. by your Soul. it will make her to think about you, and the Love that you have in your heart For her.. that she'll miss this Pure Love if she leave you behind.. :) Dont worry Andrew.

[Sage]

it's clear to me that you've never been touched by true love. I'm sorry for you.

I'm truly sorry that none of my past relationships, though awesome, have not played out like a cliche'd romantic movie.

[Aves]

Ok, Kyle and Tim, stop fighting.

Also Kyle I'm so sorry about what happened to your girlfriend, I hope she gets better.

[ErykaInspire.]

I hope your gf is alright, hun.
And I agree with all of these. I've been in a relationship like that but, eh, things happen..
But it was still the best relationship ever(:
Guys that know love, know that all of these are right.
And Lucifer, it's not about dominance. It's about a guy wanting to show a girl how important she is to him.

[kyle95]

I hope your gf is alright, hun.
And I agree with all of these. I've been in a relationship like that but, eh, things happen..
But it was still the best relationship ever(:
Guys that know love, know that all of these are right.
And Lucifer, it's not about dominance. It's about a guy wanting to show a girl how important she is to him.

very kind of you. tks.