advice needed!!

[mATT 09]

ive been goin out with my gf for a while n i think this w.e mite be the time we finally hav sex.. just wanting advice so i dont make a fool out of myself in front of her!! every bit helps cheers

[mATT 09]

hey ben im 16 n we've been going out a couple of months.

[strata8]

Just be sure to keep your self calm and relaxed. She'll probably understand if you're at bit nervous (remember - she probably is too), but make sure you don't go overboard and freak out ;).

Not that I can talk - I'm only 15 and, as you can guess, never had sex :P, but maybe this will still help :)

[pontiacdriver]

ive been goin out with my gf for a while n i think this w.e mite be the time we finally hav sex.. just wanting advice so i dont make a fool out of myself in front of her!! every bit helps cheers

If this is your first time having sex, then the only advice any of us can give you is to have realistic expectations. First times are very, very rarely great, and like any new ability it is going to take practice to get better at it.

If you get anything out of this post, then remember that honesty and feedback are critical in any sexual relationship. If you cannot be totally open about your fears and concerns as well as your expectations of what you want from sex from your partner, then you are not ready or will not enjoy sex. If you are open, then things will go by fine, and your sexual relationship will be fine.

Finally, just make sure you both take necessary precautions and know what to do if the unexpected happens such as condom failure or if she had forgotten to take her birth control. Safety is most important in any sexual relationship.

[kenshin8106]

be calm and relaxed, and jerk one off b4 hand as allot of guys say so that way you can last allot longer, b/c the sex will be short enuf for ur 1st time even tho u did that lol and enjoy :D

[nick]

Well dont ask for instructions on here, thats against the rules. As pontiacdriver has said contraception is a must, for god's sake dont rely on pulling out that's just a no-no. Beyond that my advice is that the foreplay is the most important thing, you really need to take your time and be using that time to please her and not yourself.

[Giles]

I'd say that if you have to ask then your not ready.. but your 16 and youve been with your gf for a few month then... I'm not sure