My Friend Came to Me for Advice

[Joshm5816]

Ok, so today while I was in class, my friend who is a girl is having some problems. She just got a new boyfriend (who is a year older, I see no problem there) who I'm not so crazy about. I've noticed that having a relationship has affected her academic work. All her tests and quizzes have slipped by at least a letter grade. So today she seemed kind of bummed and I asked her are you ok. She tells me that there are rumors going around school that her boyfriend has already lost his virginity. Now she is thinking what I was thinking the whole time, that he might end up using her just for sex. I told her you do what you think is right. I personaly think it's a little young to lose it at 14, I figured I'd wait till I'm 16. I told her if you do have sex, make sure you use a condom, I tell that to all my friends. I really just don't want to see her get hurt. Did I tell her the right things? And should I tell her anything else?

[AllThatIsLeft]

It all comes down to her decision, I think you said the right thing, but she shouldn't let that get to her. Just be there for her and advise her if she needs it. So far I think you have the right idea so don't be afraid to tell her the truth of the situation instead of what she wants to hear.

[Contra]

I think you told her the right thing. She needs to get some advice, and if she asked you that, then she trusts your opinion.
It's really up to her, but tell her she needs to think this through, because she may suffer, in every way.

[Discomposure]

It's nice she has a friend there for her, but here you have told her all you can. As it's bin said before, it all comes down to her decision and hopefully, you'll be there whatever happens. Good luck with it.
:)

[sebbie]

Its her choice what she decides to do and you should respect that. What you said seems like good advice only thing I can think of adding to it is to make sure that she does not do anything she is not comfortable/ ready for example sex etc.

Maybe tell her to take things slow and steady to make sure no rushed decisions are made.

[Misty.]

u did a great thing u kno :)
just make sure she knows that one shud realy be so sure wen it comes to having sex...becoz it has certain after math wch only girls haf to face(unfortunately :mad: huhhh)

n be her support... make sure u r around in case she has a hard time :)